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Masculinity And The American Male

March 26, 2012
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Masculinity And The American Malemasculinity

From the Western Center for Journalism:

My six year old first grader is wide-open, 100 mph from dawn until dusk.  He overflows with energy, laughter and excitement.  He also sits in school a good portion of the day.  Kameron, like other rambunctious little boys, has trouble sitting hour after hour while he reads, pushes his pencil and colors his pictures. He has a very patient teacher who loves him dearly, yet refuses to allow him to drop below her level of expectation.  He is familiar with the principal’s office.  He has missed a lot of recess and he has often been deprived of the things he enjoys most in life as a punishment for misbehavior at school.  His mother and I insist that he learn to obey and respect his elders and that he learn to cooperate and share with his peers and that he practice self-control.  It will be a long and tedious journey but we are very confident that Kameron will learn these lessons well and one day he will develop in a fine young man.

We are very satisfied with his educational experience but we are also aware of the difficult dynamic of educating young boys.  Their rambunctious display of energy is often considered detrimental to learning and desperate attempts are made to suppress it.  Little girls seem to thrive in a system that requires they sit still and use cooperative and creative skills.  The little male warriors are expected to do the same.   If little boys fail to sit still and act like little girls they are often ‘diagnosed’ with a ‘psychiatric disorder’ (ADHD) and fed Ritalin tablets to bridle behavior.  Learning and behavioral problems are not cured by Ritalin.  Ritalin simply treats the symptoms, the problem is still there.  Is it not troubling that so many child psychiatrists begin their diagnosis by claiming that they, too, are ADHD?  Our society has become insanely dependent on chemicals to treat the symptoms of their emotional, physical and spiritual problems while ignoring the possibility of discovering and destroying the root cause of their problems.

If a young boy’s raucous behavior can be tempered and controlled it can be a great benefit to the development of the child and to society in general.  These energetic, masculine expressions need to be fostered and developed, not chemically suppressed or destroyed.  The aggressive, independent boy who is ‘too big for his britches’ may one day be the quarterback of the football team or point guard on the basketball team.  He may lead a group of Navy Seals to save innocent lives by capturing or killing of an evil tyrant.  He may help colonize the moon, build an empire or change the world in which he lives by making an astounding discovery or invention.  Should we not control the development of a young boy’s masculinity rather than try to feminize him?

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2 Responses to Masculinity And The American Male

  1. Anony on April 1, 2012 at 8:50 PM

    First of all, the education system isn't "feminized". The issue lies with American culture and how Americans are so quick to label a child (male AND female) with a disorder at a young age without waiting for full development. This is a VERY American thing. You have children who are diagnosed simultaneously with bi-polar, ADHD, and Autism even though they may be very young and not fully developed. Younger children are naturally attention deprived, but American psychology doesn't recognize this and instead go straight to diagnostics.

    Also, as far as I am aware, Ritilin is now illegal to be prescribed to children anymore because it has caused dangerous tendencies in children (male AND female) in the past.

    Also, it is not just boys who are diagnosed at a young age. Parents have a tendency to send their children to doctors and psychiatrists early in life because they think that there is a problem.

    In Belgium and other European countries, this isn't likely to happen because the child's brain has not fully developed yet and a proper diagnostic can not be given.

    It has nothing to do with the education system, but rather the assumption that if a child is not paying attention in class, then there MUST be something psychological wrong with her or his brain.

  2. Ray2447 on March 30, 2012 at 11:02 AM

    Maybe we should begin by "un-feminizing" our educational system. :-/

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