Are Things Really Equal?

• Dometic Abuse Hotline for Men and Women, based in Maine, offers 24-hour hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) and may be offering shelter services.
• Valley Oasis in Lancater, CA has offers shelter and other services for men and their children. 24-hour Hotline: (661) 945-6736.
• Family of Men Support Society, Calgary, Canada, shelter and support services.
• Male Survivor, Overcoming Sexual Victimization of Boys and Men
• probono.net, provides resources for pro bono and legal services attorneys and others working to assist low income or disadvantaged clients.
• LawHelp.org, helps low and moderate income people find free legal aid programs in their communities, answers to questions about their legal rights, and find forms to help with their legal problems.
• Shared Parenting Works has parenting plans and other resources.
• Walk a Mile in HIS Shoes resources for abused men in Canada.
• One in Three Campaign resoures for abused men in Australia.
• Stop Abuse for Everyone, one of the most comprehensive and oldest sites dedicated to victims of domestic violence. The site was recently upgraded with the assistance of NCFM. The site includes an interactive map of north America for helping to find shelter services that might or do help abused men.

• Dear Zachary: A Letter To A Son About His Father
• Abuse, Lies, and Truth about domestic violence, one of the best videos on the subject.
• Men's Issues
• Witch Hunting - Males
• Los Misandry
• Conference on Male Studies: Looking Forward to Solutions, part 1
• Watch "Conference" part 2Please donate to the Foundation for Male Studies by visiting their Donations page. There may be nothing more important for our future than gaining fair, equitable, and high quality education of boys and men similar to what now exists for girls and women.
• My Penis and Everyone Else's
• Support: System Down you can buy on their website. Please do then show it to everyone you know.

If you have specific instances of discrimination against male domestic violence victims by any government-funded DV program anywhere in the U.S., please send all evidence you have to the following federal agencies as a complaint, and state that this violates United States Code, Title 42, Section 3789d(c)(1). Give them as much evidence as you can. They are supposed to investigate it. After several months you may get a letter back saying there is "insufficient evidence" and that they need more information such as dates and times of the discrimination, names of the programs and contact info, names and contact info of witnesses, documents or records, and a detailed chronological narrative. So, re regarding evidence, the more the better. You can send the complaints by email, mail, or both. Send them to: Office of Civil Rights Office of Justice Programs U.S. Department of Justice 810 7th Street, NW Washington, DV 20531 Office of the Inspector General inspector.general@usdoj.gov oig.hotline@usdoj.gov