Fathers

NCFM Member Jeanne Falla co-organizes fundraising event for the C.O.P.E. Family Support Center to help connect Dads to community resources

May 7, 2016
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NCFM Member Jeanne Falla co-organizes fundraising event for the  C.O.P.E. Family Support Center to help connect Dads to community  resources

Hello NCFM Members and Supporters. Please help us raise funds to help Dads The C.O.P.E. Family Support Center is hosting a fundraiser eat on WED May 18th at the Habit Burger Grill in Concord at
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Posted in Child Custody, Dads, Family, Fathers, NCFM Accomplishment, NCFM First, NCFM NorCal, Northern California, Parenting, Programs Good | 1 Comment »

NCFM Member Jeanne Falla and father advocacy groups tried to save the San Mateo County Fatherhood Collaborative

January 8, 2016
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NCFM Member Jeanne Falla and father advocacy groups tried to save the San Mateo County Fatherhood Collaborative

Jeanne was NCFM’s representative to the San Mateo County Fatherhood Collaborative while it existed. She attended two SMCFC meetings, was developing a good working relationship with then Executive Director Carine Verdusco and is an active member of a broad-based children, father and family advocacy group working to resurrect the program; which, as the article below suggests, may have been defunded for...
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Posted in Discrimination, Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Discrimination Men by Men, Double Standarad, Family, Father's Rights, Fatherlessness, Fathers, NCFM NorCal | 1 Comment »

NCFM Member Man Up asks Big Brothers Big Sisters of San Diego why they don’t ask women to women up?

October 25, 2015
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NCFM Member Man Up asks Big Brothers Big Sisters of San Diego why they don’t ask women to women up?

NOTE: First published August 20, 2014. Republished October 25, 2015 as part of rebuilding our website… One of our NCFM members received the following email from Milvi Chao, Recruitment and Enrollment Specialist, Operation Bigs/Military Mentoring Program, Big Brothers Big Sisters of San Diego County,  which lead him to their “Man Up” campaign. Our members...
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Posted in Action, Discrimination, Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Discrimination Men by Men, Double Standarad, Father's Rights, Fathers, Feminism, Military, NCFM, Radical | 3 Comments »

NCFM Adviser Gordon Finley, PhD, quoted in article about Fatherhood

September 4, 2015
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NCFM Adviser Gordon Finley, PhD, quoted in article about Fatherhood

NCFM NOTE ON FATHERHOOD: Young fathers have a much higher early death rate than do men who become fathers later in life. There is no mention in the article about whether non custodial dads whose children are kept from them, whose children are alienated against them, and are paying onerous child support and onerous...
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NCFM President Harry Crouch Father’s Day letter

June 19, 2015
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NCFM President Harry Crouch Father’s Day letter

By NCFM As usual, I’ve waited until the last-minute to wish us all a Happy Father’s Day, not sure why, too many thoughts perhaps. I spent much of last Saturday with my son, grandson, daughter-in-law, and good friend Julie B. at the San Diego County Fair in Del Mar. Carter, my grandson is almost five....
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Posted in Authors, Dads, Fathers, Fathers' Day, Harry Crouch, National Coalition For Men, NCFM, NCFM NorCal, NCFM North Carolinas | No Comments »

NCFM Adviser Gordon Finley, Ph.D, picked for Wallethub panel of experts for “2015’s Best and Worst States for Working Dads”

June 18, 2015
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NCFM Adviser Gordon Finley, Ph.D, picked for Wallethub panel of experts for “2015’s Best and Worst States for Working Dads”

By NCFM Wallethub studies the worst and best cities for things like families, having a baby, finding a job, and so on. For Father’s Day they decided to find out which states were the best and worst for working Dads. Minnesota is the best and Mississippi the worst. “Male parenting is not what it once was. Fatherhood...
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NCFM Member Richard Doyle’s presentation in Qatar — “Empowering Families, Men in Families”

April 24, 2014
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NCFM Member Richard Doyle’s presentation in Qatar — “Empowering Families, Men in Families”

Richard Doyle‘s book series, “Doyle’s War, Save the Males” has for decades carried the message that good fathers are necessary in a civilized society, that men should be considered socially and legally equal to women, and decries the denigration of men and manhood.  Because this entire concept is too incorrect politically, it didn’t gain...
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Posted in Action, Activism, Conference Men, Conference Women, Dads, Family, Fathers, Richard Doyle, MRA | No Comments »

Boy Trouble Family breakdown disproportionately harms young males—and they’re falling further behind.

December 16, 2013
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Boy Trouble Family breakdown disproportionately harms young males—and they’re falling further behind.

NCFM NOTE: Thank the City Journal for running this excellent article by Kay Hymowitz. She does a superb job of summarizing the adverse impact on boys from the breakdown of the intact family unit, meaning a family with both bio parents… Kay S. Hymowitz Boy Trouble Family breakdown disproportionately harms young males—and they’re falling...
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Posted in Boys, Child Abuse, Children's' Rights, Dads, Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Divorce, Education, Fatherlessness, Fathers | 2 Comments »

This is what happens when state family law workgroups and commissions end up with members dependent upon government for their boat payments…

October 10, 2013
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This is what happens when state family law workgroups and commissions end up with members dependent upon government for their boat payments…

NCFM NOTE:  The Fatherhood Coalition of Massachusetts was largely responsible for Governor Patrick convening a work-group to review state family law. The letter below makes one wonder if the good Governor appointed people to the work-group who he knew or should have known would sabotage its intent and protect the interests of stakeholders who...
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Posted in Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Domestic Violence Industry, Father's Rights, Fathers, Health Men | No Comments »

California Parents File Federal Racketeering Lawsuit against Family Court Judges; Charge Criminal Extortion, Bribery, Abuse of Office

August 27, 2013
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California Parents File Federal Racketeering Lawsuit against Family Court Judges; Charge Criminal Extortion, Bribery, Abuse of Office

CaliforniParents File Federal Racketeering Lawsuit against Family Court Judges; Charge Criminal Extortion, Bribery, Abuse of Office PRESS RELEASE August 20, 2013 — San Diego, CA – In its continuing campaign to end the harassment, fraud, and abuse rampant in California State Family Courts, a parents’ rights group, the California Coalition for Families and Children, has filed...
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Posted in Action, Activism, Courts Corrupt, Courts Family, Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Divorce, Father's Rights, Fatherlessness, Fathers | 45 Comments »

ScienceDaily reports that A Man’s Occupation Linked to Time Spent On Housework

August 15, 2013
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ScienceDaily reports that A Man’s Occupation Linked to Time Spent On Housework

NCFM NOTE: Thank you NCFM Baja Liaison Robert Yourell for referring us to this article… also, as far as I know single Dads have been supporting families and doing housework regardless of studies, though this study is interesting was it worth the $$$. A Man’s Occupation Linked to Time Spent On Housework, Study Finds...
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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda, Esq., “highly recommends” Why Dads Leave: Insights & Resources for When Partners Become Parents

June 1, 2013
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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda, Esq., “highly recommends” Why Dads Leave: Insights & Resources for When Partners Become Parents

Why Dads Leave: Insights & Resources for When Partners Become Parents. By Meryn G. Callander; Contributions by Jack W. Travis, M.D. Mullumbimby, New South Wales, Australia: Akasha Publications, 2012. www.whydadsleave.com. US $19.95. 335 pages. Review by J. Steven Svoboda. Australian social worker and wellness expert Meryn Callander has written a truly fascinating and valuable...
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Posted in Abused Man, Alimony, Child Support, Dads, Discrimination Against Males, Fathers, Steven Svoboda, Esq. | No Comments »

Women’s Duty To Men

December 31, 2012
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Women’s Duty To Men

Women’s Duty To Men by JOE ZAMBONI on DECEMBER 28, 2012 The duties that American men have to American women are many, and consistently enforced by a variety of heavy-handed mechanisms such as mandatory jail-time, court-imposed fines, the yanking of your driver’s license, and separation from your children. As if that wasn’t enough to force you to...
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Child abuse from the bench — the Lt. Colonel Joel Kirk story

September 14, 2012
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Child abuse from the bench — the Lt. Colonel Joel Kirk story

SEE PAUL ELAM’S UPDATE, LISTEN TO THE AUDIO, UNBELIEVABLE, EVERYONE INVOLVED IN KEEPING THESE CHILDREN WITH THIS MOTHER SHOULD BE IN JAIL! FIRST THEY SHOULD LOSE WHATEVER PROFESSIONAL LICENSES THEY HAVE TO USE TO DESTROY THE LIVES OF OTHERS.   By DR. Tara J. Palmatier Originally published on AVFM . Decorated combat pilot and...
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Posted in Abused Man, Activities, Child Custody, Courts Family, Discrimination Against Men, Divorce, Domestic Abuse/Violence, Domestic Violence Industry, DR. Tara J. Palmatier, Fathers, Feminist Jurisprudence, Government Programs for Women, Horrible, Men's Rights, NCFM in the news, Perps Female, Shameful, Supremist, War Against Men | 4 Comments »

NCFM gets an honorable mention re Knights of the 21st Century and better days

September 4, 2012
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NCFM gets an honorable mention re Knights of the 21st Century and better days

Knights of 21st Century in Lebanon aims for better days By ANDREA GILLHOOLLEYLebanon Daily News Updated:   09/04/2012 09:07:53 AM EDT   The Lebanon Knights of the 21st Century lead team prepares for the third year of the program, which starts Sept. 11 above Legends Café, 9 S. Ninth St., Lebanon. Shown are, from...
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NCFM Australia Liaison Greg Andresen inquires of Parliment why men’s groups did not recieve an invitation to testify

July 26, 2012
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NCFM Australia Liaison Greg Andresen inquires of Parliment why men’s groups did not recieve an invitation to testify

NCFM NOTE from this side of the other pond: NCFM members and other activists in Los Angeles, California and elsewhere are experiencing similar problems as reported below in a letter from our allies in Australia.  Administrators of such publicly funded domestic violence organizations are often politically insulated, arrogant and hypocritically demonstrate the very same...
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Posted in Activities, Children's' Rights, Conference Women, Divorce, False Allegations DV, Fathers, Immigration law, Steve DeLuca, Uncategorized, Victim Compensation, Victim Male | No Comments »

Lawyers Carve Out ‘Divorce for Men’ Niche

July 24, 2012
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Lawyers Carve Out ‘Divorce for Men’ Niche

NCFM NOTE: A version of this article appeared July 23, 2012, on page B1 in the U.S. edition of The Wall Street Journal, with the headline: Lawyers Carve Out ‘Divorce for Men‘ Niche. And, let there be no doubt of the institutional bias against fathers and men in general. If none existed law firms like...
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Posted in Child Support, Courts Family, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Divorce, Domestic Abuse/Violence, False Allegations DV, Fathers, Health Men, Lawyers, Marriage | 1 Comment »

NCFM award winner Barbara Kay’s NY Daily News article, A Father’s Day downer

June 18, 2012
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NCFM award winner Barbara Kay’s NY Daily News article, A Father’s Day downer

NCFM NOTE – All fathers should be thankful for wonderful people like Barbara Kay. Barbara was nominated for and accepted NCFM’s 2009 Award for Excellence In Promoting Gender Fairness In The Media In recognition of her very well-written articles supporting Men’s Rights, including articles that dispute the alleged pay gap, and articles that expose...
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Posted in Abused Man, Activities, Child Abuse, Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Divorce, Domestic Abuse/Violence, Employment Men, Employment Women, Event Males, False Allegations DV, Fathers, Fathers' Day, Government Programs for Women, Marriage, Media Bias, Myths, Rape Allegations, Sexual Assault, Supremist | 6 Comments »

Celebrating Families. Who is the Evil Empire Now

May 14, 2012
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Celebrating Families. Who is the Evil Empire Now

Celebrating Families. Who is the Evil Empire Now? By Eric Ross, Ph.D. When Harry Crouch, NCFM President, asked NCFM members to find examples of celebration of family, men, and parenthood, I replied almost immediately with a rather sarcastic note. It was about what many American fathers know as their sad reality: “Good luck finding...
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Posted in Children's' Rights, Discrimination Against Boys, Discrimination Against Males, Discrimination Against Men, Europe Eastern, Fathers, Fathers' Day | 10 Comments »

Unseen Injustice – drummed out of the United Stated for wanting to see his children…

March 26, 2012
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Unseen Injustice – drummed out of the United Stated for wanting to see his children…

Unseen Injustice In today’s world of political correctness and empowerment of women, the rights and freedoms of men have been downgraded to the point that they are now considered a second class citizen in the eyes of the US civil court system. The unforeseen consequence that resulted is the breakup of the American family,...
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Posted in Child Abuse, Child Abuse, Child Custody, Children's' Rights, Courts Family, Discrimination Against Males, Fathers, Guest, Sexism, Shameful | 2 Comments »

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Are Things Really Equal?

Absolutely a must watch video, especially if you still think men are advantaged over women

Useful Family Law Resource based on California Law.

Untying the Knot | Los Angeles, Ca Divorce - how to file for divorce videos NCFM receives a small percentage of sales and NCFM members are involved in the development and operation of the for profit site, though NCFM has no involvement other than being an affiliate. A tremendous amount of $$ and time has been spent developing this site which may be very useful if you have related issues. However, NCFM takes no responsibility for its content, use, or outcomes.

NCFM Adviser Philip W. Cook with “Girl Writes What” NCFM Member Karen Straughan

Girlwriteswhat on ideological feminism and its impact on our society and culture

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Foundation for Male Studies

Conference on Male Studies: Looking Forward to Solutions Part 1 from Joseph Notovitz on Vimeo

Watch "Conference" part 2

Please donate to the Foundation for Male Studies by visiting our Donations page. There may be nothing more important for our future than to assure the fair, equitable, and high quality education of our boys and men.

More on the war against males in education

Great site for the facts and relevant ariticles

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Interview with Erin Pizzey, the women who started the domestic violence shelter movement

Click on the picture below for Erin’s website

Other MUST WATCH Videos

 

Dr. Helen

Protect yourself! Get the book!!

Great Resources for Abused Men

 
  • Dometic Abuse Hotline for Men and Women, based in Maine, offers 24-hour hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) and may be offering shelter services.
  • Valley Oasis in Lancater, CA has offers shelter and other services for men and their children. 24-hour Hotline: (661) 945-6736.
  • Family of Men Support Society, Calgary, Canada, shelter and support services.
  • Male Survivor, Overcoming Sexual Victimization of Boys and Men
  • probono.net, provides resources for pro bono and legal services attorneys and others working to assist low income or disadvantaged clients.
  • LawHelp.org, helps low and moderate income people find free legal aid programs in their communities, answers to questions about their legal rights, and find forms to help with their legal problems.
  • Shared Parenting Works has parenting plans and other resources.
  • Walk a Mile in HIS Shoes resources for abused men in Canada.
  • One in Three Campaign resoures for abused men in Australia.
  • Stop Abuse for Everyone, one of the most comprehensive and oldest sites dedicated to victims of domestic violence. The site was recently upgraded with the assistance of NCFM. The site includes an interactive map of north America for helping to find shelter services that might or do help abused men.

More great resources for men and those who care about men. Ask your elected officials if they do.

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