Comments for National Coalition For Men (NCFM) http://ncfm.org NCFM was founded in 1977 and has since been dedicated to the removal of harmful sex based stereotypes, particularly as they adversely impact men, their families, and the women that love them. Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:52:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on NCFM Canadian Liaison Earl Silverman interviewed by the Calgary Beacon about abuse by women and lack of resources for abused men by jjnsydbb http://ncfm.org/2011/12/news/domestic-abuse-violence/ncfm-canadian-liaison-earl-silverman-interviewed-by-the-calgary-beacon-about-abuse-by-women-and-lack-of-resources-for-abused-men/comment-page-1/#comment-22877 jjnsydbb Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:52:43 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=5670#comment-22877 nDKqzX <a href="http://tjfidgeaxkwa.com/" rel="nofollow">tjfidgeaxkwa</a> nDKqzX tjfidgeaxkwa

]]> Comment on Wounded Warrior returns medals in protest over having to pay his ex-wife alimony from his disability checks. by tj000 http://ncfm.org/2012/02/news/military-news/wounded-warrior-returns-medals-in-protest-over-having-to-pay-his-ex-wife-alimony-from-his-disability-checks/comment-page-1/#comment-22864 tj000 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 14:16:58 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=5989#comment-22864 Men, be ready to wage a war against govt and judiciary ! Men, be ready to wage a war against govt and judiciary !

]]> Comment on The Honorable Man by Todd http://ncfm.org/2011/05/authors/tim-goldich/the-honorable-man/comment-page-1/#comment-22862 Todd Fri, 03 Feb 2012 13:57:56 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=2736#comment-22862 Why don’t families provide the same cautions to their sons about abusive girls and women who will try to take advantage of them, control and abuse them? Families need to teach their sons about the dangers of abusive women just like we teach our daughters about the dangers of abusive men. We need to teach our boys to respect themselves and develop healthy boundaries—even if it’s a woman who is violating them. We need to teach boys that it’s healthy and right to walk (or run) away from girls and women who are disrespectful, cruel, indifferent, demanding, controlling, demeaning, manipulative, opportunistic, possessive, jealous, emotionally dishonest, unempathic, abusive, crazy and/or predatory. We need to teach our boys, just like we teach our girls, that it’s not okay for a loved one or anyone to lay their hands upon you in violence; that it’s wrong to be taken advantage of financially (i.e., he earns all of the money and she spends it all while running up debt and refusing to work); we need to teach them the warning signs and symptoms of abuse and that’s there’s no shame in admitting they’re in an abusive relationship and that men, just like women, don’t owe their abuser a damned thing except a view of their backsides walking away from them and, in some cases, a trip to the local jailhouse. We need to teach our boys that tolerating abuse from a woman doesn’t make them “men;” it makes them victims and suckers for buying into the bull that abuse isn’t abuse when the perpetrator is a female. We need to provide boys and young men the same information and supports we provide girls and women. Predators come in all shapes, sizes and sexes and we need to teach our children, girls and boys, how to avoid and protect themselves from manipulative, abusive predators. We also need to stop normalizing predatory behaviors in females exhibited in high-conflict and personality-disordered types as normal and/or acceptable female behavior. These behaviors are not normal. It’s just as bad and pathological when women exhibit abusive behaviors and they should receive the same public censure, condemnation, ostracism, court fines and jail time as male abusers. Why don’t families provide the same cautions to their sons about abusive girls and women who will try to take advantage of them, control and abuse them?
Families need to teach their sons about the dangers of abusive women just like we teach our daughters about the dangers of abusive men. We need to teach our boys to respect themselves and develop healthy boundaries—even if it’s a woman who is violating them. We need to teach boys that it’s healthy and right to walk (or run) away from girls and women who are disrespectful, cruel, indifferent, demanding, controlling, demeaning, manipulative, opportunistic, possessive, jealous, emotionally dishonest, unempathic, abusive, crazy and/or predatory.
We need to teach our boys, just like we teach our girls, that it’s not okay for a loved one or anyone to lay their hands upon you in violence; that it’s wrong to be taken advantage of financially (i.e., he earns all of the money and she spends it all while running up debt and refusing to work); we need to teach them the warning signs and symptoms of abuse and that’s there’s no shame in admitting they’re in an abusive relationship and that men, just like women, don’t owe their abuser a damned thing except a view of their backsides walking away from them and, in some cases, a trip to the local jailhouse. We need to teach our boys that tolerating abuse from a woman doesn’t make them “men;” it makes them victims and suckers for buying into the bull that abuse isn’t abuse when the perpetrator is a female.
We need to provide boys and young men the same information and supports we provide girls and women. Predators come in all shapes, sizes and sexes and we need to teach our children, girls and boys, how to avoid and protect themselves from manipulative, abusive predators. We also need to stop normalizing predatory behaviors in females exhibited in high-conflict and personality-disordered types as normal and/or acceptable female behavior. These behaviors are not normal. It’s just as bad and pathological when women exhibit abusive behaviors and they should receive the same public censure, condemnation, ostracism, court fines and jail time as male abusers.

]]> Comment on Fantastic video: Woman slams the injustices of feminism! by Megan http://ncfm.org/2011/12/news/feminism-supremist/fantastic-video-woman-slams-the-injustices-of-feminism/comment-page-1/#comment-22585 Megan Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:11:04 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=5798#comment-22585 Sounds like a case of discretionary blues: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_2LpLhOsc4" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_2LpLhOsc4</a> Sounds like a case of discretionary blues: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_2LpLhOsc4

]]> Comment on Media focus on rapes and other female miseries while ignoring male executions, worked-to-death laborers, tortured prisoners, and nine-year-old boy soldiers trained to kill and be killed. by Rape and Murder of Males Deemed Irrelevant http://ncfm.org/2011/10/news/conscription/media-focus-on-rapes-and-other-female-miseries-while-ignoring-male-executions-worked-to-death-laborers-tortured-prisoners-and-nine-year-old-boy-soldiers-trained-to-kill-and-be-killed/comment-page-1/#comment-22567 Rape and Murder of Males Deemed Irrelevant Wed, 01 Feb 2012 18:01:39 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=4291#comment-22567 [...] are reminiscent of similar practices followed in the Bosnian and Kosovan conflicts of the 1990s.”[5] Clearly, if females were specially targeted, males would not be donning female clothing. Yet, as [...] [...] are reminiscent of similar practices followed in the Bosnian and Kosovan conflicts of the 1990s.”[5] Clearly, if females were specially targeted, males would not be donning female clothing. Yet, as [...]

]]> Comment on NCFM strenuously objects to the Verizon Foundation and the National Domestic Violence Hotline teaming up for some man-hating by VAWAvictim http://ncfm.org/2011/12/action/the-verizon-foundation-and-the-national-domestic-violence-hotline-team-up-to-promote-hate/comment-page-1/#comment-22563 VAWAvictim Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:23:28 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=5027#comment-22563 45 years of "Feminist" Domestic Violence Industry Evil Indoctrination that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, Encouraging an Epidemic of False Accusations of Sexual Harassment, Domestic Violence and Rape, that: - Women are Good, All Men are Violent and Rapists! - Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators! - Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed! <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQZh2YCQav4" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQZh2YCQav4</a> <a href="http://thedomesticviolenceindustrylies.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://thedomesticviolenceindustrylies.blogspot.c...</a> The Violence Against Women Act, VAWA grants $1 Billion to the Misandric Domestic Violence Industry, money that is used for propaganda... it is used to brain-wash the public with the Sick, Venomous Feminist Doctrines which are: - spreading male-hate (Misandry), - creating and encouraging ongoing conflict between the sexes, - maligning males and boys in every possible way, - Encourage an Epidemic of False Accusations by Women agains Men ...and Inspire Misandric Legislations and School/Court/Police Practices 45 years of "Feminist" Domestic Violence Industry Evil Indoctrination that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, Encouraging an Epidemic of False Accusations of Sexual Harassment, Domestic Violence and Rape, that:
- Women are Good, All Men are Violent and Rapists!
- Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators!
- Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQZh2YCQav4
http://thedomesticviolenceindustrylies.blogspot.c…

The Violence Against Women Act, VAWA grants $1 Billion to the Misandric Domestic Violence Industry, money that is used for propaganda… it is used to brain-wash the public with the Sick, Venomous Feminist Doctrines which are:
- spreading male-hate (Misandry),
- creating and encouraging ongoing conflict between the sexes,
- maligning males and boys in every possible way,
- Encourage an Epidemic of False Accusations by Women agains Men

…and Inspire Misandric Legislations and School/Court/Police Practices

]]> Comment on NCFM strenuously objects to the Verizon Foundation and the National Domestic Violence Hotline teaming up for some man-hating by Maisyn http://ncfm.org/2011/12/action/the-verizon-foundation-and-the-national-domestic-violence-hotline-team-up-to-promote-hate/comment-page-1/#comment-22530 Maisyn Wed, 01 Feb 2012 12:16:05 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=5027#comment-22530 This introduces a pelsiangly rational point of view. This introduces a pelsiangly rational point of view.

]]> Comment on NCFM Helps Major Women Event Avoid Major $$ Sanctions by Marison http://ncfm.org/2011/03/action/2046/comment-page-1/#comment-22525 Marison Wed, 01 Feb 2012 11:21:03 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=2046#comment-22525 [...] Scratching Shed, is biusly preparing the company’s next moves after their recent launch of Forty-20, a new monthly rugby league [...] [...] Scratching Shed, is biusly preparing the company’s next moves after their recent launch of Forty-20, a new monthly rugby league [...]

]]> Comment on Anti-Male Media Bias by David http://ncfm.org/2011/05/issues/anti-male-media-bias/comment-page-1/#comment-22461 David Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:54:43 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=2622#comment-22461 hey Devin this is David Lightbody, I had a wife now I have a child and i am in family court being discriminated against and cant see my daughter I am a veteran of the afghan campaign.I was in the army.I have a new girlfriend and we want to get married but my wife is giving me a hard time on that too.I am disabled emotionally an mentally with some mild physical problems and also there is orders of protection against me I was never arrested for anything I don't know how the judge is doing this to me.Please help me man,My phone number is 1 845 260 1871 also my email is talktodavidl@yahoo.com anyone who reads this please help anyway you can i live in Westchester ny my daughter lives in Jefferson county my mother has cancer and i want her to see my daughter before anything happens my older brother recently died and my dad died as well.I need reinforcments.tahnk you sincerely David Lightbody hey Devin this is David Lightbody, I had a wife now I have a child and i am in family court being discriminated against and cant see my daughter I am a veteran of the afghan campaign.I was in the army.I have a new girlfriend and we want to get married but my wife is giving me a hard time on that too.I am disabled emotionally an mentally with some mild physical problems and also there is orders of protection against me I was never arrested for anything I don't know how the judge is doing this to me.Please help me man,My phone number is 1 845 260 1871 also my email is talktodavidl@yahoo.com anyone who reads this please help anyway you can i live in Westchester ny my daughter lives in Jefferson county my mother has cancer and i want her to see my daughter before anything happens my older brother recently died and my dad died as well.I need reinforcments.tahnk you sincerely David Lightbody

]]> Comment on NCFM Canadian Liaison Earl Silverman interviewed by the Calgary Beacon about abuse by women and lack of resources for abused men by Aman http://ncfm.org/2011/12/news/domestic-abuse-violence/ncfm-canadian-liaison-earl-silverman-interviewed-by-the-calgary-beacon-about-abuse-by-women-and-lack-of-resources-for-abused-men/comment-page-1/#comment-22392 Aman Tue, 31 Jan 2012 19:56:57 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=5670#comment-22392 Great blog Bungles. Your story would be oh so much bdlaner without Jeanie’s involvement – (am so glad to see I am not the only one with a temperamental non-birding wife!) Great blog Bungles. Your story would be oh so much bdlaner without Jeanie’s involvement – (am so glad to see I am not the only one with a temperamental non-birding wife!)

]]> Comment on NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley says males need help too. War and the rape of men. by Sathish http://ncfm.org/2011/11/news/discrimination-against-men-news/ncfm-advisor-gordon-finley-says-males-need-help-too-war-and-the-rape-of-men/comment-page-1/#comment-22388 Sathish Tue, 31 Jan 2012 19:46:49 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=4916#comment-22388 Pretty nice post. I just stbumled upon your blog and wanted to say that I have really enjoyed browsing your blog posts. In any case I’ll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you write again soon! Pretty nice post. I just stbumled upon your blog and wanted to say that I have really enjoyed browsing your blog posts. In any case I’ll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you write again soon!

]]> Comment on Anti-Male Media Bias by Rediscovering Masculinity « Elephants & Trees http://ncfm.org/2011/05/issues/anti-male-media-bias/comment-page-1/#comment-22287 Rediscovering Masculinity « Elephants & Trees Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:19:58 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=2622#comment-22287 [...] And I agree, men do need to “man up”, but not the way feminists think they do. You see, when a feminist says that men need to “man up” what they mean is that men need to put their shoulder back to the plow like the good little slaves they are and suffer through their miserable lives without complaining about the unfair situation they are being forced to endure. Up until now this strategy has worked just fine, but there’s a change in the wind. Men are tired of being treated like they are expendable, they are tired of having all the responsibility while women have all the choices. They are tired of being wage slaves, walking wallets and the butt of every joke. [...] [...] And I agree, men do need to “man up”, but not the way feminists think they do. You see, when a feminist says that men need to “man up” what they mean is that men need to put their shoulder back to the plow like the good little slaves they are and suffer through their miserable lives without complaining about the unfair situation they are being forced to endure. Up until now this strategy has worked just fine, but there’s a change in the wind. Men are tired of being treated like they are expendable, they are tired of having all the responsibility while women have all the choices. They are tired of being wage slaves, walking wallets and the butt of every joke. [...]

]]> Comment on Genital Integrity – Circumcision by Derp http://ncfm.org/2011/04/issues/genital-integrety-circumcision/comment-page-1/#comment-22223 Derp Mon, 30 Jan 2012 17:12:24 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=2270#comment-22223 This link leads to a virus. This link leads to a virus.

]]> Comment on Reproductive Rights by Derp http://ncfm.org/2009/01/issues/mens-reproductive-rights/comment-page-2/#comment-22222 Derp Mon, 30 Jan 2012 16:55:00 +0000 http://www.ncfm.org/wp/?p=247#comment-22222 If you are not married, you can not name a father. They have to sign an affidavit stating they are. You have your facts wrong. I suggest you go do your research some more. The baby can be NAMED whatever, but you can not just put a name down if you are not married to them. :P Try again. If you are not married, you can not name a father. They have to sign an affidavit stating they are. You have your facts wrong. I suggest you go do your research some more.

The baby can be NAMED whatever, but you can not just put a name down if you are not married to them. :P

Try again.

]]> Comment on Domestic Violence by Finnigan http://ncfm.org/2009/01/issues/domestic-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-22157 Finnigan Mon, 30 Jan 2012 06:20:50 +0000 http://www.ncfm.org/wp/?p=232#comment-22157 <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/jury-finds-afghan-family-guilty-honor-killings-202441543.html" rel="nofollow">http://news.yahoo.com/jury-finds-afghan-family-gu...</a> http://news.yahoo.com/jury-finds-afghan-family-gu…

]]> Comment on Genital Integrity – Circumcision by OhMyGod http://ncfm.org/2011/04/issues/genital-integrety-circumcision/comment-page-1/#comment-22060 OhMyGod Sun, 29 Jan 2012 16:44:52 +0000 http://ncfm.org/?p=2270#comment-22060 Oh my god. Oh my god.

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