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National Coalition for Men (NCFM)
932 C Street, Suite B, San Diego, CA 92101


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8 Responses to Contact Us

  1. Jerre on June 1, 2012 at 3:59 AM

    I just wanted to thank you! your website is by far the most reliable, documented, easy-to-read and complete one.
    I am surrounded by feminist women who claim that women are victims everywhere in the society. Worse part, some of them even work for the European Commission and write reports on how women face sexism everywhere in the society. On the other hand, I have friends who were forced to be fathers (and are now divorced, but still pay and worse are unfairly labelled "absent fathers"), a friend who was refused his paternity!, I didn't get my promotion because quotas imposed a female propotion over a male promotion, most of the boys I know are drifting at school and nobody cares… I myself feel like oppressed by my wife and feel that psychological harrasment is awful (it eats you inside)…

    It gives me hope to see that other men feel the same and decided to stand up. I will prepare a small video about the main feminist lies and how they brainwash the society. I might need some to do the "off voice" or narrator as I am not an English native speaker. I will do the subtitles in French and in Spanish.

    Keep up the good work! Cheers!

  2. alejandro on May 1, 2012 at 5:23 PM

    I got the charge for battery first degree dropped but i got fired because of the lies of the ex and now i can't find work because when i Google my name my mugshot is still there. am working to have it expunged but she also put me a restraining order accusing me of rape and drugging among other false accusations which i believe my ex employer has passed it to the state of Florida for which i used to do service work for. she used to be a police officer and has connections as she told me once. am afraid to do anything to clear my name. she told me that she had restraining orders for some other relationships and she has hurt other men before when i first met her. i thought she meant something like cheating but now i believe she has damaged other men's reputations.

  3. Ha Shaftam on January 3, 2012 at 4:14 PM

    WE at DA CAUS! would like to thank you for your continued success in bringing the truth to the people about how this country has been emasculated. WE would also like to extend an invitation to you ALL to come join us on our website and Facebook page.

    Keep up the great work!

    Respectively Yours,
    Ha Shaftam

  4. Herbert Boggs on December 26, 2011 at 6:36 PM

    I am A father of a 3 year old son currently residing in Florida, the babys home state where he has lived his whole life. His mother and I split up ,and she took him to New Mexico about 1 month ago. I want to know what i have to do to get him back here with me, please help. Sincerely yours,

  5. F.O.D. S. on December 18, 2011 at 5:51 PM

    Please help educate readers and the public in Eureka, CA about false sexual allegation/criminal charges!
    Mr. Darrell Slape faces a trial in early January, 2012, and needs help getting a fair trial in a town which does not always give fair trials. Help correct the myth that women do not falsely accuse.
    Blog at:
    and at….
    One of these sites is supported by the newspaper, giving a one-sided view. The reporters views and it appears the DA's office have been bloging. Thank you to all for whatever intelligent assistance can be rendered, as compared to the slander on these sites.

  6. Ben Vonderheide on November 21, 2011 at 8:52 PM

    Thank you for the excellent website! I'm Ben Vonderheide, aka Daddy Justice, and I've been fighting against false accusations by my ex-paramour who took my son and started accusing me of everything under the sun to try to put me in jail. A local man here in Pennsylvania has written a book based on my struggle against the legal system that automatically assumes that the woman is the victim and the man is the perpetrator. I've included a link to the book, "Father Injustice", on Amazon. Please spread the word that this story illustrates so clearly…the feminist agenda and VAWA is destroying families and taking fathers away from their children. I look forward to talking with you and sharing information on this timely subject in our society today. Thanks again and have a nice evening.

  7. Carolyn on September 27, 2011 at 11:29 AM

    Please help Dyreal Lee Wilson. He was living with a girl in Texas and they had one daughter. She was about 5 months pregnant when they broke up. Shortly afterward she called him and said she lost the baby. He was devestated. He is a very good father to his daughter and raised her since she was a new born (the monther was incarcerated for child neglect.) When she got out she took the daughter to live with family in Ft. Worth but kept coming to see him every week. Then after the split she called him and told him the baby boy died. He was heart broken. Two months ago he found out that she gave the baby boy up for adoption to a California Adoption agency. Of course he wants his child. He does not have a lot of money but can pay something along with family's help. The agency is trying to force him to sign some documents. The notary in Texas gave us a copy without being officially served. Because once he serves him, they claim we only have 30 day's or it all over and he looses his son forever. Please I heard your organization help father's fight illegal adoptions. Can you help him. Thanks

  8. Christine Higgins on August 11, 2011 at 12:11 PM

    Please help Harry Marcum. He is my brother and he is being railroaded by the Hunderton County Prosecuters office. His own court appointed attorney hasn't helped him at all. We as family can't see him, and don't have the chance to talk to him before any court hearing. We know that he was wrongly accused of endangering the welfare of a minor and touching his own neice. Not 1 person has asked the family any questions. His own attorney called his Father-in-law and told him that my brother admited to being naked with our neice. My brothers attorney, David Hamilton actually cohersed my brother into taking a deal that would give him 4 years with a possibility of probation after 18 months. The judge would not take into effect any time already served. There is alot of information about this you need to hear. Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? We can't even afford to get him out on bail. He hasn't even had any bail reduction hearings since he was arrested and that was 6 weeks ago.

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