NCFM Award Winner Wendy McElroy, Rape Culture Hysteria, Ain’t I a Woman

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NCFM Award Winner Wendy McElroy, Rape Culture Hysteria, Ain’t I a Woman

NCFM NOTE: With permission, we are excited to share the preface to Wendy McElroy’s newest book Rape Culture Hysteria. The outline of the book is here as a PDF. Additionally, we will soon publish Chapter Five: Comparison of the Key Surveys Regarding Rape, Why Do Rape Statistics Vary So Widely? Introduction, arguably the most comprehensive analysis of related statistics. It’s a must read and reference for anyone interested in the topic and truth. Rape Culture Hysteria By Wendy McElroy Preface: Ain’t I A Woman?  Introduction My Questions for PC Feminism Ain’t I a woman? Ain’t I a feminist? Ain’t I a victim of sexual violence? Overview of the Book Three Caveats The omission from self-respect The omission I regret This book has no academic pretensions Conclusion Notes If one believes women are more powerful than men because we own practically all of the vaginas,...
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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen, “Anti-violence group slams ‘sexist’ Human Rights Commission decision”

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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen, “Anti-violence group slams ‘sexist’ Human Rights Commission decision”

Anti-violence group slams ‘sexist’ Human Rights Commission decision Media release – for immediate release – Monday September 19th 2016 Anti-violence group slams ‘sexist’ Human Rights Commission decision The One in Three Campaign, Australia’s key advocacy organisation for male victims of family violence, has criticized the extraordinary move by Human Rights Commissioner Gillian Triggs to ban male researchers from the 2017 Personal Safety Survey. “This seems nothing more than an attempt to protect the already heavy gender discrimination influencing and distorting this key survey of violence in Australia,” said campaign researcher Mr Paul Ross. The survey, conducted by the Australian Bureau of Statistics, is a vitally important piece of research regularly used as the best barometer of family and domestic violence and therefore dictating government policy, resources and funding. “The public who fund this survey have a right to facts and...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Bigotry is on the Rise on College Campuses”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Bigotry is on the Rise on College Campuses”

NCFM NOTE: When confronted with someone bad mouthing men and patriarchy, ask them if they see anything men built. Think about it… Bigotry is on the Rise on College Campuses Many would agree that sexism and racism remain serious and, in some cases a growing concern. However, those being discriminated against are not the ones that feminists and other alleged advocates for equal rights have traditionally focused their attentions and efforts on. Instead, the group being victimized is straight white men. There is plenty of evidence to suggest that males are being mistreated—and yet, for some strange reason, many seem to find this totally acceptable. Ironically, one such example includes a ban on straight white men at the United Kingdom’s equality conference of the University and College Union, reported by the Daily Mail in June 2016. But this was not an...
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NCFM Files Complaint with State Bar Associations’ and USDOJ, Civil Rights Division regarding Major Martin and false accusations

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NCFM Files Complaint with State Bar Associations’ and USDOJ, Civil Rights Division regarding Major Martin and false accusations

Update in the Wrongful Prosecution of Army Major Martin false accusations case NCFM Files Complaint with State Bar Associations and United States Department of Justice (USDOJ), Civil Rights Division concerning Army JAG Prosecutors Jacob Bashore, James Garrett, and Shawn Atkins  September 14, 2016  by NCFM “There is no greater tyranny than that which is perpetrated under the shield of the law and in the name of justice.” Charles-Louis de Secondat, French Philosopher, 1689-1755 On August 12, 2016, NCFM took a historic step to file formal complaints involving the three primary prosecutors in the wrongful prosecution of Major Christian ‘Kit’ Martin. In addition to the respective state bar associations, the complaints were also forwarded to and received by (confirmed) the USDOJ, Criminal Section, Civil Rights Division. We are considering filing six more complaints. Egregious conduct of Judge Advocate General’s (JAG) prosecutors Major Jacob Bashore (recently...
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NCFM update in the False Accusation and Wrongful Conviction Case of Army Major “Kit” Martin:

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NCFM update in the False Accusation and Wrongful Conviction Case of Army Major “Kit” Martin:

NCFM update in the False Accusation and Wrongful Conviction Case of Army Major “Kit” Martin: Are bumbling Kentucky police and Army CID Agents trying to kill Major Martin, or just harassing and terrorizing him because they can? September 9, 2016 by NCFM NCFM has an update in the case of Army Major Kit Martin about the November 2015 unsolved triple homicide in Pembroke, Kentucky. One of the murder victims was Calvin Phillips, a married man involved in an extra marital sexual affair with Major Martin’s dangerous, bigamist, convicted felon, lying and conniving ex-wife; Joan Harmon-Guerra. Followers of the Major Christian “Kit” Martin saga may recall Harmon-Guerra accused him of child abuse, sexual assault, even international spying. Because of politically correct pressure to end sexual assaults in the military, Major Martin suffered undue command influence, albeit a General more concerned with his career...
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NCFM, “In Another Military False Allegation Case, a Coast Guard Judge Rules that the Government Engaged in Unlawful Command Influence”

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NCFM, “In Another Military False Allegation Case, a Coast Guard Judge Rules that the Government Engaged in Unlawful Command Influence”

NCFM NOTE: In another long line of military injustices, a judge rules that military law enforcement agents; this time the Coast Guard Investigative Service, engaged in serious witness tampering in a false sexual assault case, of which the Military Prosecutor was aware. In Another Military False Allegation Case, a Coast Guard Judge Rules that the Government Engaged in Unlawful Command Influence.  August 17, 2016 by NCFM Recently, documents were obtained in a military case where Civilian Court-martial Defense Attorney Michael Waddington  represented a Coast Guard Sailor at Court-martial who was accused of sexually assaulting his wife. One of the defense’s key witnesses was a foreign national who lived in Abu Dhabi and traveled to the United States on her visa.  This foreign national was also assisting the accused Sailor regarding the investigation of his wife.  Shortly before the trial began in...
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NCFM Hero Christian “Kit” Martin, “The Real Expendables,” Falsely Accused Military Men

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NCFM Hero Christian “Kit” Martin, “The Real Expendables,” Falsely Accused Military Men

  The Real Expendables, Falsely Accused Military Men By Christian “Kit” Martin, Major, US Army 24 July 2016.  Joint Regional Correctional Facility (JRCF) Fort Leavenworth, Kansas After two and a half months in confinement, county and federal, I have to ask the question “what is the purpose of prison?”  Is it to punish?  Is it to correct?  How are those supposed to occur by locking someone up away from their family, friends, and community?  How is this supposed to help their family by taking away the human and financial support from spouses and children?  Are we not just creating more of a welfare state?  The U.S. has 5% of the world’s population, but 25% of the world’s prisoners.  We are now the new Soviet Union, locking people away in “gulags.” This is especially heinous when you look at what is being...
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NCFM Member Nelson Otto on “Privilege, Not for Men Only

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NCFM Member Nelson Otto on “Privilege, Not for Men Only

Privilege, Not for Men Only Male Privilege.  These two words are often stated as a given or fact, that men have advantages given to them just by virtue of being male, white males.  But, we might ask, compared to what?  Why haven’t we heard about female privilege?  Are there are things not being said?  Do females also have privilege?  Would we then think and feel differently about privilege and men and women? Let’s start a dialogue on this topic.  Since we’ve heard almost entirely of male privilege, I want list some of the privileges females have to offer balance to the topic. First a definition from the American Heritage Dictionary, “A special advantage, immunity, permission, right or benefit granted to or enjoyed by an individual class or caste.” Not having to register for selective service Five plus years longer life...
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NCFM, “Update in the Falsely Accused and Wrongfully Convicted Case of Army Major Kit Martin. HE’S FREE!!!

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NCFM, “Update in the Falsely Accused and Wrongfully Convicted Case of Army Major Kit Martin.  HE’S FREE!!!

Update in the Falsely Accused and Wrongfully Convicted Case of Army Major Kit Martin.  HE’S FREE!!!  August 12, 2016  By NCFM Late last month, U.S. Army Major Christian “Kit” Martin was released from custody after serving a little over two months of a three-month sentence for two misdemeanor convictions of simple assault and conduct unbecoming. He and his family have left the Fort Campbell region and have settled in a new area.  They are now free from the glares that followed them wherever they went, under the cloud of embarrassment and suspicion caused by all the events surrounding his wrongful prosecution; or should we say, a persecution on a scale of the Duke Lacrosse case on steroids. Everything and anything that thousands across the country are saying what is wrong with the military’s sexual assault witch hunt are contained in...
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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen quoted in exclusive Daily Telegraph article, “Domestic violence not just a female problem: Documents reveal more than 10,000 males across NSW affected”

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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen quoted in exclusive Daily Telegraph article, “Domestic violence not just a female problem: Documents reveal more than 10,000 males across NSW affected”

  Domestic violence not just a female problem: Documents reveal more than 10,000 males across NSW affected (Daily Telegraph) Annabel Hennessy, The Daily Telegraph August 12, 2016 12:00am More than 10,000 male victims of domestic violence have been identified across NSW as the Baird government prepares to spend $13 million over four years on first-of-its kind support programs. Documents obtained by The Daily Telegraph reveal about 1800 men need “Safety Action Meeting” representation because they are at “serious threat”. Campbelltown, Mount Druitt and Parramatta were identified as violence hot spots, with more than 400 male victims identified in each. Upper-echelon localities were not immune, with 263 victims in the northern beaches and 315 victims in Waverley. Minister for the Prevention of Domestic Violence Pru Goward has backed the scheme, arguing survivors of domestic violence deserve “a strong response and support”....
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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen with the One in Three Campaign and “ABC Life Matters story on male victims of domestic violence”

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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen with the One in Three Campaign and “ABC Life Matters story on male victims of domestic violence”

ABC Life Matters story on male victims of domestic violence (MP3 audio) The ABC radio program Life Matters has produced a story on male victims and female perpetrators of domestic violence. Their website says, So far this year, 41 women have died from domestic assault. It’s a figure higher than terrorism in Australia, and one that we’re struggling to deal with as a society. The ABS’s Personal Safety Survey, last carried out in 2012, showed that one in six women and one in twenty men have been subject to domestic violence by their partner. We hear from a female perpetrator and a man who has been abused by his wife for more than two decades. The two interviews are superb, covering the complexity of experiences of a woman who has used violence in all her relationships (and went to prison for...
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NCFM Liaison Greg Andresen announces HUGE news, $13 million in funding for services for male victims!

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NCFM Liaison Greg Andresen announces HUGE news, $13 million in funding for services for male victims!

NCFM NOTE: This is  HUGE NEWS and hopefully the beginning of a movement that will spread rapidly, though given what’s happening in the USA less optimism is surely warranted. Regardless, without the dedication, drive, and commitment of Mr. Andresen and advocates like him Down Under would never have happened in our life times. So, thank you, thank you, thank you too Minister Goward too! Please thank Minister Goward for providing services to male victims of family violence The NSW Government has committed to providing $13 million over four years for Victims Services to pilot new responses for male victims of domestic and family violence, through expert NGO support (you can find details of the Tender process here). This rollout is a historic Australia-first initiative and hopefully the first of many. It is the first step towards gender equity for family...
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NCFM Adviser Michael Conzachi, “Another, in a long line of false military sexual assault cases”

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NCFM Adviser Michael Conzachi, “Another, in a long line of false military sexual assault cases”

Another, in a long line of false military sexual assault cases August 9, 2016 By Michael Conzachi 31 Comments On June 28th, the Daily Caller published my Editorial; “A Travesty of Justice: Collateral Charges in Military Sexual Assault Cases .” I described the routine practice; as Defense Secretary Ash Carter proudly proclaimed, of charging those, facing allegations of sexual misconduct with “collateral” offenses, to ensure and guarantee a conviction of some minor offense, in the event, the accused is acquitted of any sexual misconduct charge. As has been the practice for some years now, it is no secret that a serviceman who is merely accused of some type of sexual misconduct will face a court-martial. It doesn’t matter if the allegation is true or not, and any and all military law enforcement investigative effort is made with the sole...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Rape and Frightened Women”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Rape and Frightened Women”

Rape and Frightened Women The editors of Parenting.com recommend that parents discuss intimate body parts and the subject of inappropriate touching with children when they are about three years old. The B-Inspired Mama blog suggests a more straightforward tack: We have got to put aside our differences as parents, and talk more about this terrible topic. I began telling my children at about 18 months that they own their bodies (“your body is all yours”) and that no one has a right to touch them unless it’s okay with them. Nowadays, few of us have not heard about the ongoing threat of sexual assault, especially that which involves young girls. Parents, generally mothers, are deluged with advice on what to do. They are told to raise the topic in an honest and age-appropriate way, which usually gets translated into...
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NCFM Board Member and PR Director Steven Svoboda has “Newborn Male Circumcision…” paper published in the Journal of Law, Medicine and Ethics

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NCFM Board Member and PR Director Steven Svoboda has “Newborn Male Circumcision…” paper published in the Journal of Law, Medicine and Ethics

In July 2016, the Journal of Law, Medicine and Ethics finally published the paper by ARC Executive Director Steven Svoboda, ARC Legal Advisor Peter Adler, and Bob Van Howe from the Twentieth Annual Thomas A. Pitts Lectureship in Medical Ethics, held at the Medical University of South Carolina in October 2013 pursuant to a conference titled, “Ethical and Legal Issues in Pediatrics.”  This is the longest and most comprehensive general article Steven has ever published and we are very happy to finally see it in print. Steven was the only non-physician invited, and debated the American Academy of Pediatrics’ (AAP’s) Dr. Michael Brady in a talk entitled, “Newborn Male Circumcision–Is It Ethical; Is It Legal?” Steven also appeared in a “Seminar on Pediatric Controversies” opposite Brady and Douglas Diekema, also an AAP Circumcision Task Force member. Peter participated in...
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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda quoted in “anti-male bias” lawsuit article

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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda quoted in “anti-male bias” lawsuit article

NCFM NOTE: This “anti-male” case could be a huge victory for men since they are the primary adversely affected group. Anyone who interested in due process in disciplinary procedures on college campuses knows that systems are rigged against males and blatantly disregard constitutional protections in favor of social re-engineering and “social justice,” which is largely malarkey. Hopefully, this victory will lead to many others and the outcome may positively impact one or more of the 100 or more related pending lawsuits. Court green-lights ‘anti-male bias’ lawsuit against Columbia By Morgan Walker A male student at Columbia University will be allowed to proceed with a lawsuit accusing the school of “anti-male” bias in its handling of a female student’s sexual assault accusations. A District Court had originally dismissed his suit, but an Appeals Court has reversed that ruling, saying John Doe’s allegations...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Canadian Man Awarded Daughter’s Full Guardianship,” now he’s a father’s rights activist

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Canadian Man Awarded Daughter’s Full Guardianship,” now he’s a father’s rights activist

Canadian Man Awarded Daughter’s Full Guardianship Jakob Letkemann faced the biggest challenge of his–or maybe anyone’s–life: the battle for custody of his three-year old daughter, Darian. He struggled through exhausting and heartrending court battles, during which time the 40-year old resident of Salt Spring Island, located off the west coast of British Columbia, found himself on an emotional roller-coaster ride, falsely accused of various abuses as he sought to prevail against a system biased against fathers. But none of this mattered after the verdict came in. Jakob fell to his knees, victorious, when the female judge announced he was granting his request for custody of Darian. Initially unaware of just how stacked the deck was against dads in such situations, as well as the fact that they were notorious for bringing out the worst in others, his eyes welled...
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NCFM Member Caleb Papp, “Nottinghamshire Hates Crimes Against Women” as they should, but…

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NCFM Member Caleb Papp, “Nottinghamshire Hates Crimes Against Women” as they should, but…

Nottinghamshire Hates Crimes Against Women, as they should, but…whistling or merely asking her for a date! What is a hate crime? One might think that its something motivated by hate, but feminism has made sure that it’s now more than that. As always a woman’s feelings alone are enough to decide a man’s perspective. Of course, this isn’t reality. Most of the time a man wolf-whistling will be because he thinks the woman will enjoy the attention or because he’s being tactless. But that’s a far cry from hatred. It’s hard to know how to react to an article like this. I certainly think that a man whistling at a girl is not being classy, perhaps annoying or in few instances quite a bit more. But it’s not supposed to be a crime to be tactless. One might consider...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Masculinity Deconstructed, Liberated and Unchained”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Masculinity Deconstructed, Liberated and Unchained”

Masculinity Deconstructed, Liberated and Unchained A recent episode of HBO’s Real Time with Bill Maher featured an interview with Rebecca Traister, feminist and author of All the Single Ladies, who sang praises for the book’s themes of the rise of independent women and gender equality. Among other things, she noted that more than 50 million unmarried women are now working, escaping male oppression. That total has been rising fast, with females now representing about half of the U.S. labor force. Indeed, the progress seen so far has inspired the National Organization for Women (NOW) to lessen its emphasis on workplace equality and focus instead on helping females to “appreciate their bodies.” One fact that Ms. Traister failed to mention, however, was that this evolving landscape has also liberated us men from the deeply ingrained and longstanding belief that women...
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NCFM Adviser Michael Conzachi, “Falsely Accused Military Service Members Share their Stories on Capitol Hill”

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NCFM Adviser Michael Conzachi, “Falsely Accused Military Service Members Share their Stories on Capitol Hill”

Center for Prosecutor Integrity, Military Justice Project, and Save Our Heroes’ Conduct Lobbying Event in Washington DC about the Falsely Accused  July 11, 2016 by Michael Conzachi                                          “There’s nothing stronger than the heart of a volunteer.”                                                                              Lieutenant Colonel Jimmie Doolittle, 1942 The Center for Prosecutor Integrity, the Military Justice Project, and Save Our Heroes conducted a lobbying event in Washington D.C. on July 7th & 8th, 2016.  In all, they met with legislative staffers, senators and congressmen in 21 senatorial and congressional offices....
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NCFM Liaison Greg Andresen provides more information about domestic violence against men

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NCFM Liaison Greg Andresen provides more information about domestic violence against men

  AIFS “Experiences of Separated Parents Study” reveals high levels of domestic violence against men In October 2015, the Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS) released its Experiences of Separated Parents Study – part of its evaluation of the 2012 family violence amendments by the Federal Government. The study examined the experiences of two cohorts of parents, in 2012 and 2014, the latter a total of 6,079 parents who separated between 1 July 2012 and 31 December 2013, representing parents’ post-reform experience of the family law system. The data indicate that family violence is a common experience among separated parents, with a majority of participating parents in both cohorts reporting either physical or emotional abuse. The study found that males (fathers) made up: 41.3% of parents who reported experiencing physical hurt (with or without emotional abuse) before/during separation 51.8% of...
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NCFM Carolinas invites you to their Forum on Campus Sexual Assault, Due Process and Consent

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NCFM Carolinas invites you to their Forum on Campus Sexual Assault, Due Process and Consent

  Hello, You are invited to the following event:NCFM Carolinas: Forum on Campus Sexual Assault, Due Process and Consent   Event to be held at the following time, date, and location: Monday, August 1, 2016 from 8:30 AM to 3:30 PM (EDT) Central Piedmont Community College – Central Campus Central High Building – Room 301 1141 Elizabeth Avenue Charlotte, NC 28235 View Map   Attend Event Share this event: The National Coalition For Men Carolinas, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, non-partisan human rights advocacy organization, is pleased to announce the “Forum on Campus Sexual Assault, Consent and Due Process”  to be held August 1, 2016 at Central Piedmont Community College Central Campus in Charlotte, NC. The Forum will consist of prominent experts who will share insight into how universities are handling the complex and often confusing issues of Title IX related sexual...
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NCFM President Harry Crouch Father’s Day letter, “Here I sit…nada”

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NCFM President Harry Crouch Father’s Day letter, “Here I sit…nada”

Here I sit early evening the day before Father’s Day. Usually, by now, I have finished whatever is it that moved me to write a Father’s Day article for anyone who wanted to read it. Usually, by now, I have had some sort of epiphany and words begin to flow around some central theme. Not this year. Here I sit, early evening, less than six hours to Father’s Day, nada. Then he showed up. My attorney friend, a good man, divorced many years. One daughter in Florida and a son in San Diego, both young adults, she is married and my attorney friend is now a grandfather at the ripe old age of just turned 60.  There was a bitter divorce. He never remarried and was allowed very little time with his children when they were growing up. His...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Patriarchy and Lesbian Feminist Scholars”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Patriarchy and Lesbian Feminist Scholars”

Lesbian Feminist Scholars Lesbian feminist author Maria Mies once wrote, “If patriarchy had a specific beginning in history, it can certainly have an end.” As with other feminist scholars, a group dominated by mostly white lesbians who share a perversely narrow-minded perspective, Mies is convinced that patriarchy–as well as the male sex–is oppressive and malevolent to women. Ostensibly, they advocate for female equality, but their lengthy lectures say otherwise. Their words detail a horrendously aggressive fraternity of privileged white men who pay women pennies on the dollar as they socially and institutionally oppress, dominate, discriminate against, and abuse them. In fact, the feminists’ words and actions have little to do with righting a wrong, but are instead founded on a theoretical framework, crafted by a lesbian elite, that maintains males are disgusting and immoral by nature. These experts promote...
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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda book review, “Bedrooms, Backseats & Courtrooms…,” two thumbs up

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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda book review, “Bedrooms, Backseats & Courtrooms…,” two thumbs up

Book review, “Bedrooms, Backseats & Courtrooms…,” two thumbs up! NCFM NOTE: This book review is eight years old but as relevant today as it was then! Bedrooms, Backseats & Courtrooms: The Truth about Sex in America Today. By Fathers by Choice.  Unknown Place of Publication: FBC Publication, 2008. 198 pages.  No price listed on book but amazon gives list price as $24.95. New copies currently available on Amazon for $0.99 plus shipping. An anonymous writing team has put together this engaging book addressing a topic that is important yet badly neglected, at least at book length.  The impetus for the writing of BBC is succinctly stated in the introduction: “oday’s culture has created a virtual minefield in the bedrooms and backseats of America, and … it’s become a short trip from the bedroom to the courtroom.” The book’s thesis...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Formulating the New Male Studies Curriculum”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “Formulating the New Male Studies Curriculum”

Formulating the New Male Studies Curriculum I recently submitted an article about women who sexually assault and rape boys and young men to Feminist Wire. Naively, I expected the magazine would jump at the opportunity to address this growing threat by publishing what I had written. Instead, they rejected my work, offering up the following excuse: We recognize and agree that sexual violence against boys and men are an important and necessary feminist issue. However, we are concerned with the framing of this piece, which focuses on the “flip” (“women do it too”) that doesn’t account for the dominant power relationships and contexts of institutionalized sexual violence that affects women, men, and transgendered persons. In framing it as “women rape, too” without an engagement with the feminist work that talks about sexual violence as a structural white-hetero-patriarchal practice that...
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NCFM Kenya Liaison Kennedy Owino’s report concerning mixed views on genital mutilation and a related seminar near the Kenya-Tanzania border

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NCFM Kenya Liaison Kennedy Owino’s report concerning mixed views on genital mutilation and a related seminar near the Kenya-Tanzania border

NCFM Kenya Liaison Kennedy Owino’s report on genital mutilation and a related seminar near the Kenya-Tanzania border Lenkisem is a small village found on a vast flat land to the South of Sultan Hamud in Kajiado County. We were able to access the area driving on a murram road snaking through a jungle which is full of short scattered thorny trees, baobab,cactus, euphobia,an undergrowth of green grass and various other species of trees. The area has fertile sandy soil which supports a variety of vegetation. The goats and sheep I saw there were healthy and the cows were  gigantic. On our way back we were lucky to see many giraffes and antelopes. Mount Kilimanjaro was also visibly near meaning that we were not very far from the Kenya-Tanzania border. On Saturday morning after breakfast, I was joined by a young...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “The Lonely Single Men of MGTOW”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten, “The Lonely Single Men of MGTOW”

The Lonely Single Men of MGTOW Around the world, a large and growing contingent of males is sounding a clarion call about the dark side of marriage. In doing so, they are drawing scorn and being contemptuously regarded as “lonely hearts,” “loners,” “losers,” “women-haters” and “recluses.” But nothing could be further from the truth. They have made an informed and rationale choice based on modern day realities and a keen understanding of what is important. What follows is an exploration of the world of Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) and the lives that these individuals choose to lead. Since no-fault divorce laws were enacted in 1970, over 50 million American men have endured oppressive divorces initiated by their wives. Ironically, if not for the fact that females roundly criticize males who avoid the marriage commitment, it is the...
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NCFM Award Winner Wendy McElroy’s new book “Rape Culture Hysteria”

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NCFM Award Winner Wendy McElroy’s new book “Rape Culture Hysteria”

Rape Culture Hysteria: Fixing the Damage Done to Men and Women offers a comprehensive overview and debunking of the “rape culture” myth that has devastated campuses and is spilling into Main Street America. An ideological madness is grotesquely distorting North America’s view of sexuality. The book applies sanity to the claims that men are natural rapists and our culture encourages sexual violence. Written by a libertarian feminist and rape survivor, Rape Culture Hysteria opens with a highly personal appeal to depoliticize rape and treat it instead as a crime. Victims need to heal. Politicizing their pain and rage is a callous political maneuver that harms victims, women and men. Chapter One: The Fiction of the Rape Culture defines the “rape culture” and explains why it does not exist in North America. It glances back at how the fiction became...
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NCFM update, Major Christian “Kit” Martin Dodges a Bullet in Courts-Martial at Fort Campbell – Is Acquitted of Child Sex Abuse Charges

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NCFM update, Major Christian “Kit” Martin Dodges a Bullet in Courts-Martial at Fort Campbell – Is Acquitted of Child Sex Abuse Charges

Major Christian “Kit” Martin Dodges a Bullet in Courts-Martial at Fort Campbell – Is Acquitted of Child Sex Abuse Charges “The greater the power, the more dangerous the abuse.”                                                                              Sir Edmund Burke In a stunning defeat of political correctness and the military’s ferocious quest to convict any and all allegations of sexual misconduct; regardless of veracity or truth, Army Major Christian “Kit” Martin was acquitted of all sex related charges at a Fort Campbell court-martial that concluded on Friday, May 13th. Major Christian ‘Kit” Martin Major Martin was convicted of several lesser misdemeanor charges including simple assault and mishandling classified information,...
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NCFM Members, Advisers, and Award Winners join others in this sensational video “10 Male Privileges” by Michael Callaghan

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NCFM Members, Advisers, and Award Winners join others in this sensational video “10 Male Privileges” by Michael Callaghan

So much for male privileges. Join NCFM. Become part of the solution, not the problem. Share and Enjoy:
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NCFM Member Tim Patten on “Formulating the New Male Studies Curriculum”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten on “Formulating the New Male Studies Curriculum”

  Formulating the New Male Studies Curriculum I recently submitted an article about women who sexually assault and rape boys and young men to Feminist Wire. Naively, I expected the magazine would jump at the opportunity to address this growing threat by publishing what I had written. Instead, they rejected my work, offering up the following excuse: “We recognize and agree that sexual violence against boys and men are an important and necessary feminist issue. However, we are concerned with the framing of this piece, which focuses on the “flip” (“women do it too”) that doesn’t account for the dominant power relationships and contexts of institutionalized sexual violence that affects women, men, and transgendered persons. In framing it as “women rape, too” without an engagement with the feminist work that talks about sexual violence as a structural white-hetero-patriarchal practice...
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NCFM Member Jeanne Falla co-organizes fundraising event for the C.O.P.E. Family Support Center to help connect Dads to community resources

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NCFM Member Jeanne Falla co-organizes fundraising event for the  C.O.P.E. Family Support Center to help connect Dads to community  resources

Hello NCFM Members and Supporters. Please help us raise funds to help Dads The C.O.P.E. Family Support Center is hosting a fundraiser eat on WED May 18th at the Habit Burger Grill in Concord at
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NCFM update on the Army’s persecution of Major (Kit) Martin

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NCFM update on the Army’s persecution of Major (Kit) Martin

Update of Major Martin Case at Fort Campbell  by NCFM As Major “Kit” Martin approaches his court-martial on May 9th, a flurry of activity and news media attention has been brought to bear; locally and nationally. As documented in our earlier posts about this case, there was the issue of the murder of a predominate defense witness, and two others in Pembroke Kentucky.  The witness, has been identified as Calvin Phillips’ whose body was discovered on November 19th after local authorities discovered two bodies in a burning vehicle just minutes prior.  The other two murder victims have been positively identified as Calvin Phillips’ wife; Pam Phillips and next door neighbor Ed Dansereau. Local Nashville Channel 4 Investigative Reporter Jeremy Finley recently documented and revealed a number of details and facts that suggest that Major Martin’s, now convicted felon ex-bigamist-wife;...
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NCFM Member Tim Patten on “Misogyny and Bachelorhood”

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NCFM Member Tim Patten on “Misogyny and Bachelorhood”

Misogyny and Bachelorhood Early on during the 2016 Republican presidential primary campaign, Donald Trump took umbrage at aggressive questioning by Fox News moderator Megyn Kelly at one of the debates. In addition to characterizing her as “not very good or professional,” Mr. Trump said, “You could see there was blood coming out of her eyes. Blood coming out of her wherever.” That latter remark triggered a firestorm, with the outspoken candidate being widely accused of misogyny—hating or disliking girls or women. Unfortunately, as with many of the words and phrases that are being carelessly thrown around in these days, they are not necessarily being used to make a thoughtful or coherent point; they are being deployed as weapons of gender manipulation and hate, coopted and maligned by radical feminists and other man-hating ideologues in a quest to undermine...
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NCFM Member Mark Lesmeister opinion published in Houston Chronicle, “Advantages Galore”

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NCFM Member Mark Lesmeister opinion published in Houston Chronicle, “Advantages Galore”

Advantages galore Regarding “Trump’s innate sexism is an insult to all of us” (Page A15, Thursday), Ruth Marcus wants to remind us of the disadvantages female candidates face. Isn’t it time we explore at least a little bit the other side of the coin: that is, the privileges female candidates enjoy solely because of their gender? Here’s just a few examples. Hillary Clinton has never had to answer the “what did you do during the war” that dogged her husband and George W. Bush. As a woman, she is automatically excused from the expectation that she should have served her country in uniform. Second, when female candidates are attacked personally, the omnipresent chivalrous impulse to protect women, which is just another form of sexism, rears its ugly head. Think of Clayton Williams refusing to shake Ann Richards hand after...
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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda report on his activities as President of Attorneys for the Rights of the Child

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NCFM PR Director Steven Svoboda report on his activities as President of Attorneys for the Rights of the Child

On April 3, 2016, Steven Svoboda appeared on the “Maria Sanchez Show.” Maria is a longtime friend of Attorneys for the Rights of the Child (ARC) and intactivism; Steven and Maria did their first show together way back in the year 2003. Their last previous show aired in July 2014. In this hour-long show, one of Steven’s longest ever media appearances, released by Maria as a downloadable podcast available at http://bbsradio.com/podcast/shadow-politics-april-3-2016/, Steven over-viewed some recent achievements by ARC in the 1.75 years since his last show with Maria as well as developments relating to the struggle to protect children’s right to bodily integrity: 1) ARC has several articles coming out shortly, including one jointly written by Steven and ARC Legal Advisor Peter Adler, along with Bob Van Howe. Steven believes it will be the longest general article he has published on...
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NCFM Australia Liaison Greg Andresen, “One in Three’s submission to Senate inquiry into domestic violence and gender inequality”

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NCFM Australia Liaison Greg Andresen, “One in Three’s submission to Senate inquiry into domestic violence and gender inequality”

One in Three’s submission to Senate inquiry into domestic violence and gender inequality Tuesday, April 26, 2016 One in Three Campaign The One in Three Campaign’s submission to the Senate Finance and Public Administration Committee’s inquiry into domestic violence and gender inequality has been published on the inquiry’s website. You can download a PDF copy from here. The submission makes the following arguments: A comprehensive literature review demonstrates the risk factors that contribute to the prevalence of domestic violence. Gender stereotypes and gender inequality are not present. Taxpayer resources would be better spent addressing the risk factors for domestic violence and exploring solutions that have been proven to make a real reduction in prevalence rates. The picture of gender in Australia is not that either men or women fare better overall, but that each gender has its areas that...
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NCFM Chicago Chapter President Tim Goldich, Canadian Association For Equality Interview, It All Balances Out

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NCFM Chicago Chapter President Tim Goldich, Canadian Association For Equality Interview, It All Balances Out

…….. Loving Men Respecting Women, It All Balances Out It All Balances Out Share and Enjoy:
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waybackmachineOver the years millions of people worldwide have visited a National Coalition For Men website. Also over the years the site has changed dramatically, been taken down, moved, and otherwise uprooted. In those processes much information was lost, not recovered, and does not appear on this site. However you can see earlier versions and many of the extraordinary accomplishments of NCFM back to 1996 by using the WayBackMachine. In the search box type www.ncfm.org

Are Things Really Equal?

The Red Pill Review by NCFM Member Paul Elam

Why are so many women raping boys?

Absolutely a must watch video, especially if you still think men are advantaged over women

Save our heroes

Useful Family Law Resource based on California Law.

Untying the Knot | Los Angeles, Ca Divorce - how to file for divorce videos NCFM receives a small percentage of sales and NCFM members are involved in the development and operation of the for profit site, though NCFM has no involvement other than being an affiliate. A tremendous amount of $$ and time has been spent developing this site which may be very useful if you have related issues. However, NCFM takes no responsibility for its content, use, or outcomes.

NCFM Adviser Philip W. Cook with “Girl Writes What” NCFM Member Karen Straughan

Girlwriteswhat on ideological feminism and its impact on our society and culture

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Conference on Male Studies: Looking Forward to Solutions Part 1 from Joseph Notovitz on Vimeo

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Please donate to the Foundation for Male Studies by visiting our Donations page. There may be nothing more important for our future than to assure the fair, equitable, and high quality education of our boys and men.

More on the war against males in education

Great site for the facts and relevant ariticles

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Interview with Erin Pizzey, the women who started the domestic violence shelter movement

Click on the picture below for Erin’s website

Other MUST WATCH Videos

 

Dr. Helen

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Great Resources for Abused Men

 
  • Dometic Abuse Hotline for Men and Women, based in Maine, offers 24-hour hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) and may be offering shelter services.
  • Valley Oasis in Lancater, CA has offers shelter and other services for men and their children. 24-hour Hotline: (661) 945-6736.
  • Family of Men Support Society, Calgary, Canada, shelter and support services.
  • Male Survivor, Overcoming Sexual Victimization of Boys and Men
  • probono.net, provides resources for pro bono and legal services attorneys and others working to assist low income or disadvantaged clients.
  • LawHelp.org, helps low and moderate income people find free legal aid programs in their communities, answers to questions about their legal rights, and find forms to help with their legal problems.
  • Shared Parenting Works has parenting plans and other resources.
  • Walk a Mile in HIS Shoes resources for abused men in Canada.
  • One in Three Campaign resoures for abused men in Australia.
  • Stop Abuse for Everyone, one of the most comprehensive and oldest sites dedicated to victims of domestic violence. The site was recently upgraded with the assistance of NCFM. The site includes an interactive map of north America for helping to find shelter services that might or do help abused men.

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