Porky VAWA Immigration U-VISA Senate Bill may get dumped by the House… let us pray…

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Porky VAWA Immigration U-VISA Senate Bill may get dumped by the House… let us pray…

NCFM NOTE: One of our Washington insiders and Voice of Immigration Fraud Victims Activists, David Root, thinks the House of Representatives will not go along with the Senate to increase in U-Visa quotas, which are substantial. There’s reason to believe that other than anti-male ideology that drove the Senate version earlier this year that the request for more U-VISA’s is nothing more than dangerous political pork. One of the two U-VISA processing centers is in Vermont. Senator Leahy of Vermont is primary sponsor of the recent reauthorization of VAWA. Even before the passage of the re-authorization the US Citizenship and Immigration Center in Vermont was advertising for 250 new positions! Below, Mr. Root points out that not only do existing provisions encourage false pretenses and claims of domestic violence destroying many lives of American citizens but the pork greases the...
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Canadian Student Union wants to ban men’s rights groups! So much for free speech and equal treatment…

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Canadian Student Union wants to ban men’s rights groups! So much for free speech and equal treatment…

NCFM NOTE: Clicking on the picture to your left takes you to the Canadian National Post article Robyn Urback: Student union brands men’s rights groups as ‘hateful’ clubs that ‘justify sexual assault’. The first thing you will see is a picture of a young well dressed women holding a sign saying “Men of Equality Support Women’s Equality.” Whatever happened to the struggle for “Human Rights?”  The struggle for all men and women to be treated fairly and with respect. It somehow got devoured by feminism, that is radical feminism; or, better yet supremacist feminism and the disenfranchisement of men. So pronounced is this absurd pogrom that we have allowed our educational system to become rooted in its destructive nonsense. By inaction we are complicit in submitting generations of children to educational systems disrespectful toward men, their accomplishments, and contributions to our...
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Why schools are failing our boys

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Why schools are failing our boys

NCFM NOTE: It’s the same in the U.S. too, the social re engineering to dumb down boys… make no mistake, that’s exactly what it is… mothers like the author, Maggie Dent, are standing up for their sons. Make no mistake, we need more Maggie Dents… Men’s Health Australia article By Maggie Dent  Boys will be boys, they tell us, but how many of us actually take this adage to heart and embrace it? I am the mother of four boys, now all adults. If I think back to their childhoods and adolescence, it’s a whirlwind of movement and physicality, adventure and injury, rough and tumble play, of fart jokes and stinky sports shoes, short and to-the-point communication, and lots and lots of food and Milo. (Actually, it’s not so different when we all get together now.) This description of...
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Screw free speech, PC sexual harassment idiots, North Carolina shows some common sense

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Screw free speech, PC sexual harassment idiots, North Carolina shows some common sense

Washington Times EDITORIAL: Constitution-free campuses Millions of young Americans are welcoming their first taste of freedom away from home as college classes begin around the country. The experience soured on a growing number of campuses where administrators have set up a Constitution-free zone that denies basic freedoms. At Coastal Carolina University in Myrtle Beach, S.C., freedom of the press took a hit last week. Distribution of a local alternative newspaper was prohibited on campus because the paper carried too many alcohol-related articles and advertisements. An Oakland University student was officially declared “persona non grata” and kicked off campus for writing an entry entitled “Hot for teacher” as part of a creative-writing assignment. As part of the class, he was told to jot down “raw stuff” from unedited “brainstorming” sessions, but the teacher became offended when the resulting stream of consciousness compared...
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Joseph Kerr wasn’t prepared for an abusive wife–and the systems in place to help weren’t ready either.

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Joseph Kerr wasn’t prepared for an abusive wife–and the systems in place to help weren’t ready either.

  NCFM NOTE: Below is a must read article from the Good Man Project. Just yesterday I spoke with another active duty soldier. Married over 15 year, with three children, his borderline disordered wife with one official military finding of being abusive, he knew not what to do. The last time she attacked him he did report it to the police, put them on notice. We agreed that if happened again that he should call the police all the while knowing that their was a good chance he would be arrested for being assaulted by his wife. An all to common situation of military men. He, like others, told me he would rather be back in Afghanistan. At least there he could defend himself and get a good nights sleep without fear of being attacked in bed. For men such...
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Saudi Arabia Bans Domestic Abuse (Because It Hadn’t Already)

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Saudi Arabia Bans Domestic Abuse (Because It Hadn’t Already)

NCFM NOTE: Saudi Arabia’s Council of Minister’s just outlawed domestic violence at home and in the workplace, that is domestic violence against women. What’s missing? Apparently there are no abused men in Saudi Arabia? Not even one man abused by a woman? Wow!  Who knew? That’s about to change dramatically. The Saudi’s just gave women the unrestricted license to abuse men, like they’ve done in completely Westernized countries, as in America. The Council of Ministers have no idea what they’ve done, though some will live to regret it. All they had to do was make the law gender inclusive, recognize that relationship violence is not gender specific, and extend protections to their entire population making it illegal for anyone to abuse anyone else. Unfortunately, inevitable reforms will favor women with ever-expanding man hating bureaucracies staffed by man-haters and male behavior...
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Shared Parenting is a win-win-win situation

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Shared Parenting is a win-win-win situation

NCFM NOTE: For the many of you interested in the shared parenting movement twohomes.com is an organization worth supporting. Tom James is writing about the history of child custody on LAW BLOGS  which is strongly recommended and provides very good information useful to efforts such as twohomes.com . Two homes work better for children after separation Shared parenting is a win-win-win situation Bonn, Germany, 13 August 2013. Shared parenting, with an equal standing of both parents, has been proved to be in the best interests of children, because they can stay in a meaningful relationship with both their mother and their father after separation or divorce. Shared parenting reconciles family and work. Shared parenting provides benefits to society. Experts from numerous countries met for the launch of twohomes.org in Bonn, Germany “We must extinguish the flames of conflict between separated...
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California Parents File Federal Racketeering Lawsuit against Family Court Judges; Charge Criminal Extortion, Bribery, Abuse of Office

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California Parents File Federal Racketeering Lawsuit against Family Court Judges; Charge Criminal Extortion, Bribery, Abuse of Office

CaliforniParents File Federal Racketeering Lawsuit against Family Court Judges; Charge Criminal Extortion, Bribery, Abuse of Office PRESS RELEASE August 20, 2013 — San Diego, CA – In its continuing campaign to end the harassment, fraud, and abuse rampant in California State Family Courts, a parents’ rights group, the California Coalition for Families and Children, has filed a lawsuit today in federal court charging the San Diego County courts, social workers, divorce attorneys, and psychologists with federal criminal racketeering. “The abuses of parents and children by Family Courts, social workers, and family law attorneys have harmed parents and children for far too long. We intend to end that abuse.” says CCFC President Colbern Stuart. “Family court is designed by its makers to be probably the most dangerous life event parents and children can endure. It enables and profits from every inhumane instinct known to man—greed, hate,...
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Women Who Occupy San Diego and Sexual Harassment – Dingos devouring their own after an injury

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Women Who Occupy San Diego and Sexual Harassment – Dingos devouring their own after an injury

One of our NCFM members reported that Women Who Occupy San Diego has a website with a poster, Violence Against Women No More Excuses! Stop It Now! Then it says on their website, “The recent spotlight on sexual harassment in San Diego is indicative of what women endure every day, in all areas of our lives. Women Occupy San Diego kicks off their campaign, No More Excuses. Stop it now!  The “recent spotlight” being on San Diego’s can’t-keep-his-hands-to-himself ex-Mayor Bob Filner. It’s the juxtaposition that’s intriguing. Violence, by definition, “the use of physical force to injure somebody…” Here, then, for the Women Who Occupy, sexual harassment is violence even in the absence of the use of physical force to injure — another assault on the lexicon of human behavior. Really? Wow, who knew? Every woman everyday is sexually harassed! That...
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State Representative AND domestic violence advocate Brenda Kupchick arrested in family fight…nah, yes, really, go figure, hey(!), it happens!

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State Representative AND domestic violence advocate Brenda Kupchick arrested in family fight…nah, yes, really, go figure, hey(!), it happens!

NCFM NOTE: Domestic violence…well,  “It’s a family matter; it’s personal,” said her husband…”You don’t know anything about the situation,” said Kupchick’s sister Fabrizi… “Every family has occasional disagreements,” said State Rep. Brenda Kupchick, “I will always put the best interests of my family and my family’s children first,” she added… really? Might be considered denial if Jupchick had a penis. As the saga unfolds will the good State Senator be ordered into a 52 batterer intervention program? Maybe a batterer intervention program provided by one of her favorite nonprofits like the Center for Women and Families? Will she have to register as a DV perp? Nah, the DA will find a way not to prosecute. Story will die in a day or two. Though Bridgeport’s domestic violence operatives will surely rally to somehow blame it all on a man? Clearly...
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NCFM Member Anonymous writes about “SEXISM IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS”

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NCFM Member Anonymous writes about “SEXISM IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS”

SEXISM IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS By Anonymous The Mountaineers is an outdoors club headquartered in Seattle devoted to hiking, climbing, skiing, kayaking, etc.  (Go to www.mountaineers.org for more information.)  For the most part, it is a great group, with countless people volunteering their time and expertise to help people enjoy the outdoors.  I was a member for 27 years. However, the last few years, the Mountaineers had sponsored Women’s Wellness Weekends for women only.  I was aware of other women-only events as well.  I did not know of any men-only activities.  The group has an official policy against sexual discrimination.  I assumed that if I pointed out this sexism to the club’s leadership, that they would stop these Women’s Weekends immediately.  This did not happen.  Instead, they justified the Women’s Weekends with the strange and convenient argument that the...
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NCFM PR Director J. Steven Svoboda, Esq. review of Forgetting Children Born of War: Setting the Human Rights Agenda in Bosnia and Beyond.

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NCFM PR Director J. Steven Svoboda, Esq. review of Forgetting Children Born of War: Setting the Human Rights Agenda in Bosnia and Beyond.

Forgetting Children Born of War: Setting the Human Rights Agenda in Bosnia and Beyond. By R. Charli Carpenter. New York: Columbia University Press, 2010.  273 pages.  www.cup.columbia.edu. No price listed on book but website gives price as $37. Review by J. Steven Svoboda R. Charli Carpenter, assistant professor of political science at the University of Massachusetts-Amherst, has done that rarest of things. She has written a book, “Forgetting Children Born of War: Setting the Human Rights Agenda in Bosnia and Beyond,” that is so outstanding that ultimately it comes to shed light far beyond its focused topic.  Full disclosure: Carpenter has extensively interviewed me in preparation for her next book, which analyzes several political movements including intactivism (anti-circumcision work). First of all, it has to be said that Carpenter is nothing less than an astoundingly lucid and fluid writer,...
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Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too.

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Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too.

NCFM NOTE: This CNN Opinion Piece is another example of people finally getting fed up with special interest groups and the media heaping shame, blame, and guilt onto men. Thank you CNN and author Daniel Yellin. Daniel Yellin is a Benjamin Franklin Scholar at the University of Pennsylvania, where he is studying marketing and operations management at the Wharton School of Business and cinema studies in the College of Arts & Sciences. He is an intern at CNN. (CNN) — Last month, the New York Times published an article in its Sunday Styles section with the headline “Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too.” It focused on what it called the casual hookup culture at my school, the University of Pennsylvania, where I am a junior. It found that many students see relationships from a purely economic...
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Rape is not ‘normalized’: expert says the vast majority of men would never commit rape

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Rape is not ‘normalized’: expert says the vast majority of men would never commit rape

NCFM NOTE: From the Community of the Wrongly Accused . If you have not bookmarked their site you should. And, if the majority of men never commit rape then it follows then that the majority of women are not raped. Don’t believe feminist advocacy stats, most of which are ridiculous on their face if you take 30 or seconds to use your common sense to think them through… Rape is not ‘normalized’: expert says the vast majority of men would never commit rape Dr. David Lisak, one of American’s most respected experts on sexual assault and a darling of feminist bloggers, gave the opening address to a large crowd at the 2013 Summit on Sexual Assault, called Not in Our State, at Montana State University on Monday. Dr. Lisak explained that over 90 percent of all rapes are committed...
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MUST READ: EJF newsletter – The Low-Road to Disaster – Advocacy Research by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D

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MUST READ: EJF newsletter – The Low-Road to Disaster – Advocacy Research by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D

Introduction     Fifty years ago scientific studies were presumed to have been completed under carefully-controlled conditions with the best available methods, analysis, and review applied to the data before publication. Scientific rigor thus generated public trust. The work and accuracy of engineers is plainly evident. If a bridge falls, an airplane crashes due to a mechanical defect, and so on, the design is plainly flawed and the engineers behind the project are usually held to account. Medical doctors can, and have buried many mistakes, but eventually it becomes evident that they must wash their hands after dissecting a corpse and before delivering a baby. So now one finds a scrub room outside every surgery and hand sanitizers throughout hospitals. Eventually they were even willing to accept that H. pylori was the cause of ulcers, along with other enlightenment brought...
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NCFM Award Winner Cathy Young article “What About Men’s Rights”

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NCFM Award Winner Cathy Young article “What About Men’s Rights”

Valley Advocate Guest Column: What About Men’s Rights? Wednesday, August 14, 2013 By Cathy Young Never mind the “war on women:” according to growing numbers of activists and authors, it’s males in modern Western society who are under siege and whose rights need defending. Is this the next frontier for gender justice or a woman-hating backlash? Men’s advocacy raises worthy issues that often draw unfair ridicule. Unfortunately, it is also prone to toxic rhetoric that subverts its valid points and alienates potential supporters. To many, the very notion of men’s issues or men’s rights seems laughable. But if women were dying in 90 percent of workplace fatalities and three out of four suicides, would we not see such numbers as troubling—and as legitimate women’s issues? Unlike racial profiling of minorities, the disproportionate targeting of males by law enforcement gets...
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ScienceDaily reports that A Man’s Occupation Linked to Time Spent On Housework

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ScienceDaily reports that A Man’s Occupation Linked to Time Spent On Housework

NCFM NOTE: Thank you NCFM Baja Liaison Robert Yourell for referring us to this article… also, as far as I know single Dads have been supporting families and doing housework regardless of studies, though this study is interesting was it worth the $$$. A Man’s Occupation Linked to Time Spent On Housework, Study Finds Aug. 13, 2013 — A woman’s work is never done — or so the saying goes. Though women still do about two thirds of household chores, the division of labor may depend on what her mate does for a living. New research by University of Notre Dame Sociologist Elizabeth Aura McClintock shows that when married or cohabiting men are employed in heavily female occupations — like teaching, childcare work, or nursing — they spend more time doing housework, compared to when they are employed in...
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NCFM Award Winner BARBARA KAY: KFC’s ‘hot shot bites’ ad campaign leaves me cold

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NCFM Award Winner BARBARA KAY: KFC’s ‘hot shot bites’ ad campaign leaves me cold

NCFM NOTE: Canadian national columnist Barbara Kay takes on slap happy Kentucky Fried Chicken ads! It’s just a matter of time now. Just a matter of time before Uncle Sanders rises from the grave and thumps those that have sullied his name by promoting female violence against men. Just a matter of time… don’t buy their chicken. Please, if you have not done so sign the petition asking for KFC to stop these ads: http://www.change.org/petitions/kentucky-fried-chicken-stop-making-light-of-domestic-violence BARBARA KAY: KFC’s ‘hot shot bites’ ad campaign leaves me cold Walk down the endless hot sauce aisle at any kitchen specialty store and you may conclude, along with me, that the whole concept of hot sauce is an intrinsically masculine obsession. I deduce this from the names of the various sauces. Their common theme seems to be the gastronomic pleasure to be derived from...
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NCFM Transitions, July 2013 Edition, the longest running, oldest, and only Men’s Rights Journal on the planet

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NCFM Transitions, July 2013 Edition, the longest running, oldest, and only Men’s Rights Journal on the planet

130808 Transitions published copy Share and Enjoy:
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NCFM Advisor Richard Davis, Words Revealing and Rare… Another reason for a White House Council on Men and Boys

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NCFM Advisor Richard Davis, Words Revealing and Rare… Another reason for a White House Council on Men and Boys

George Zimmerman, Trayvon Martin , and the White House Council on Men and Boys…not. Words Revealing and Rare July 30, 2013 11:18 AM EDT (Updated: July 31, 2013 01:40 PM EDT) Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Albert Einstein On the front page of the July 20, 2013 issue of the Boston Globe President Obama notes that the Trayvon Martin homicide reveals that lingering racial tensions in American persist.” In fact, protests across the nation document that the President is right. Racial tensions do linger in the minds of many Americans and as the President noted in 2009, we need to talk about it. However, the Trayvon Martin homicide must not become another 21st century “teachable moment” about race, similar to the all but forgotten July 16, 2009 arrest of Professor Henry Louis Gates...
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“Can’t we all just get along…” men’s rights activists should play nice

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“Can’t we all just get along…” men’s rights activists should play nice

“Can’t we all just get along…” …men’s rights activists should play nice and keep quiet… By Honey Badger Brigade It’s an argument we’ve heard over and over from sources critical of the men’s human rights movement. It gets handed to us by individuals who think of feminism and the MHRM as two opposite ends of an activism spectrum, with feminists representing women, and the MHRM representing men. The latest version of it, a Boston Globe editorial by Cathy Young, is a sugar-coated rehash of the same tone argument feminists have been using to try to shame MHRAs into silence for years; shaming language, claims that MHRAs are too loud, too brash, too rude, and talk too much about the problems the movement exists to address. She could have snatched the last few paragraphs of her article almost directly from...
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KFC slaps men to sell chickens! Pathetic.

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KFC slaps men to sell chickens! Pathetic.

KFC uses stereotypical slapstick advertising to sell spicy chicken. But all this KFC advertising does is promote violence, violence against men. Considering the world we live in it is hard to understand how a huge conglomerate like Yum! Brands, owner of KFC, fell prey to such immature and archaic marketing. Click on the picture to watch the video. It is showing at www.KFC.com too! We guess KFC is proud of it, though it probably makes their chickens blush with shame. Below the picture is a copy of the letter was sent them asking them to stop the ads. We’re asking you to go to their website and ask them the same. We’re also asking the you stop buying KFC until they stop running the ad campaign. You can sign an online petition to have KFC change their ads here: http://www.change.org/petitions/kentucky-fried-chicken-stop-making-light-of-domestic-violence ....
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NCFM Member Joe Manthey, Petaluma 360 article on rape biased

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NCFM Member Joe Manthey, Petaluma 360 article on rape biased

NCFM NOTE: not long ago Women Industries had a strangle hold on the media, articles about women making false accusations of rape were forbidden. An article like Mr. Manthey’s had as much chance of getting published as an abused man finding support services. Manthey points to shoddy Women Industry reporting techniques used to promote fantasies about big bad abusive men while completely obliterating by omission any rational thought of the abusive women. Here again is a blatant example of all rights and protection with no responsibility or guilt. Thank you Mr. Manthey and Petaluma 360. Please go to their website and leave a comment — after leaving a comment here of course… Guest Commentary on Petaluma 360 Article on rape was biased By Joe Manthey Published: Tuesday, July 23, 2013 at 4:47 p.m. I found it ironic that Argus-Courier...
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NCFM Advisor Phil Cook in NEWSWEEK’S DAILY BEAST, In Cases of Domestic Violence, Men Are Also Victims, Celebrity Emma Roberts arrested

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NCFM Advisor Phil Cook in NEWSWEEK’S DAILY BEAST, In Cases of Domestic Violence, Men Are Also Victims, Celebrity Emma Roberts arrested

NCFM NOTE: One of our elder statesman members noted, ” “Isn’t it interesting how the media keep “discovering” female-on-male” partner violence, yet the “male-always-victimizer/female-always-victim” narrative never seems to change in news coverage?” Yup, maybe someday they’ll actually get it and pass it along to our legislators… In Cases of Domestic Violence, Men Are Also Victims by Philip W. Cook In the wake of Emma Roberts‘s arrest for allegedly battering her boyfriend, Philip W. Cook writes on the shockingly high number of women who beat their partners—and why it’s harder for the men to find help. The recent news that Emma Roberts was arrested for domestic violence July 7 in Montreal after a fight with her boyfriend, American Horror Story co-star Evan Peters, is merely the latest celebrity case where the man is the victim. Police were called to their...
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GPS Monitoring, DV, America’s Pogrom Against Men, Judgybitch…you need to know her…him…whoever

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GPS Monitoring, DV, America’s Pogrom Against Men, Judgybitch…you need to know her…him…whoever

NOTE: Become a Judgybitch fan. Behold, bow, send silver and gold. He/she is king and queen of the truth squad. This report on the use of GPS Monitoring technology in Domestic Violence cases, funded by the Department of Justice, will blow your mind. Even when women are enrolled as abusers, they’re still victims. by judgybitch Our favorite little feminist, Amanda Marcotte has an article up at Slate extolling the virtues of programs that use GPS to monitor domestic violence (alleged) offenders, and to the surprise of no one, she of course assumes all the accused are men and all the victims are women.  Naturally, her story is illustrated with the proverbial pretty white woman splattered with blood. In theory, domestic homicide should be easy to prevent, since men who kill their wives or girlfriends (85 percent of victims are female) generally...
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NCFM Member Uncle Joe, Godfather to American Men, on pre-nups

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NCFM Member Uncle Joe, Godfather to American Men, on pre-nups

Men, pre-nuptial agreements and parenting plans by Uncle Joe, Godfather to American Men Men and women have to accept that marriage in the state’s eye is a joint venture contract.  The marriage is a merger of two separate entities pursing a joint venture because the two parties decided they had mutual interests – in this case – pursuing love, not profit – and wanted to form a partnership.  When the joint venture no longer satisfies one or both individual entities interest the joint venture has failed and needs to be dissolved.  Essentially divorce, similar to dissolving a joint venture, is about inventorying the marriage/venture’s assets and  liabilities to distribute them.    Smart businesses entering joint venture contracts define how a venture or partnership will be dissolve when the reasons for entering the joint venture no longer exist. Marriage as defined...
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Whitewash! Prosecutorial misconduct whitewashed by disgusting circle the wagon cronyism in the ADA Mary Kellett disciplinary case.

Whitewash! Prosecutorial misconduct whitewashed by disgusting circle the wagon cronyism in the ADA Mary Kellett disciplinary case.

Whitewash! Prosecutorial misconduct whitewashed by disgusting circle the wagon cronyism in the Mary Kellett case. This is the most blatant case of prosecutorial misconduct of which I know. So egregious is this case that NCFM along with others last year filed complaints with the Maine Board of Overseers of the Bar against prosecutor Mary Kellet in the Vladek Filler case. In brief, Vladek was persecuted, prosecuted, and sentenced for a questionable misdemeanor criminal offense which came from a storm of false allegations made by his violently crazy wife who on video even threatened to kill Filler and the police! As of this typing Maine has not brought one criminal charge against her thereby compounding the injustice of Mary Kellett’s persecution of Vladek. The Maine Board of Overseers recommended sanctions for prosecutorial misconduct. From the article below the Attorney General,...
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See NCFM Wayback

waybackmachineOver the years millions of people worldwide have visited a National Coalition For Men website. Also over the years the site has changed dramatically, been taken down, moved, and otherwise uprooted. In those processes much information was lost, not recovered, and does not appear on this site. However you can see earlier versions and many of the extraordinary accomplishments of NCFM back to 1996 by using the WayBackMachine. In the search box type www.ncfm.org

Are Things Really Equal?

Girlwriteswhat on ideological feminism and its impact on our society and culture

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Great Resources for Abused Men

 
  • Dometic Abuse Hotline for Men and Women, based in Maine, offers 24-hour hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) and may be offering shelter services.
  • Valley Oasis in Lancater, CA has offers shelter and other services for men and their children. 24-hour Hotline: (661) 945-6736.
  • Family of Men Support Society, Calgary, Canada, shelter and support services.
  • Male Survivor, Overcoming Sexual Victimization of Boys and Men
  • probono.net, provides resources for pro bono and legal services attorneys and others working to assist low income or disadvantaged clients.
  • LawHelp.org, helps low and moderate income people find free legal aid programs in their communities, answers to questions about their legal rights, and find forms to help with their legal problems.
  • Shared Parenting Works has parenting plans and other resources.
  • Walk a Mile in HIS Shoes resources for abused men in Canada.
  • One in Three Campaign resoures for abused men in Australia.
  • Stop Abuse for Everyone, one of the most comprehensive and oldest sites dedicated to victims of domestic violence. The site was recently upgraded with the assistance of NCFM. The site includes an interactive map of north America for helping to find shelter services that might or do help abused men.

More great resources for men and those who care about men. Ask your elected officials if they do.

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File a Federal Complaint

If you have specific instances of discrimination against male domestic violence victims by any government-funded DV program anywhere in the U.S., please send all evidence you have to the following federal agencies as a complaint, and state that this violates United States Code, Title 42, Section 3789d(c)(1). Give them as much evidence as you can. They are supposed to investigate it. After several months you may get a letter back saying there is "insufficient evidence" and that they need more information such as dates and times of the discrimination, names of the programs and contact info, names and contact info of witnesses, documents or records, and a detailed chronological narrative. So, re regarding evidence, the more the better. You can send the complaints by email, mail, or both. Send them to: Office of Civil Rights Office of Justice Programs U.S. Department of Justice 810 7th Street, NW Washington, DV 20531 Office of the Inspector General inspector.general@usdoj.gov oig.hotline@usdoj.gov