NPR – The Unsafe Sex: Should The World Invest More In Men’s Health?

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NPR –  The Unsafe Sex: Should The World Invest More In Men’s Health?

NCFM NOTE: Notice below the comments and inferences about the recent awakening about issues in women’s health versus men’s health. Thirty or so years ago Professor Christina Hoff Sommers showed how radical feminists adroitly turn lies into dollars. First you do a study to confirm the lie, then declare a crisis, and then work politicians into a frenzy to get unnecessary legal protections, programs, and dollars. Frank S. Zepezauer, in The Feminist Crusades, adds a fourth manifestation, expand the bureaucracy. Notice how the professional women commenting below say what they say. Consider it in terms of the lies turned into bureaucracy process… After reading the article please tell us — comment below — if you think NPR is advocating for men’s health programs. The Unsafe Sex: Should The World Invest More In Men’s Health? by Michaeleen Doucleff May 18,...
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Will Francis “Coyote” Shivers be arrested tonight because of a trap set by ex-wife Pauley Perrette?

Will Francis “Coyote” Shivers be arrested tonight because of a trap set by ex-wife Pauley Perrette?

Do people set other people up just for spite? Create situations to entrap others just because it’s doable? Maybe even manipulate events to cause an arrest for a restraining order violation? Are they really that smart; or really that stupid? For those of you following the ex-husband Francis “Coyote” Shivers/Pauley Perrette ex-wife wrongful conviction, false accusations, trumped up restraining order, murder for hire soap opera, we’ve learned from independent investigators working for the various civil rights groups that one of precious Pauley’s boyfriends may have landed a bar-tending job at a cocktail lounge in Hollywood serving up Cucumber Dilettantes with muddled cucumbers and pink swizzle. Mr. Shivers frequents the place where Boyfriend will be pouring drinks, popping beer caps, and flirting with movie star wannabees. Shivers and friends have frequented this area for over 15 years. He has worked...
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NCFM calls for closer scrutiny of violent women who abuse men in light of Travis Alexander’s murder by Jodi Aris

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NCFM calls for closer scrutiny of violent women who abuse men in light of Travis Alexander’s murder by Jodi Aris

  Press Release San Diego, California, May 9, 2013 Contact: Marc Angelucci, Esq., NCFM Vice President, marcangelucci@hotmail.com   626-319-3081 SUMMARY: Travis Alexander’s murder by Jodi Aris was horrific by any measure. It may not have happened if more attention were paid to female perpetrators and their male victims.  In light of the tragic murder of Travis Alexander by his ex-girlfriend Jodi Arias, the National Coalition For Men (NCFM) calls for more attention to the neglected side of domestic violence where the perpetrator is female and the victim is male.  The neglect of male victims is so prevalent that most people do not know Alexander’s name and the public rarely calls this a case of domestic violence. Female-on-male domestic violence is not rare.  In 2011 the Centers for Disease Control announced that “More than 1 in 3 women (35.6%) and more than 1 in 4 men (28.5%) in the United States...
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NCFM announces the first annual International Foreskin Awareness Week

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NCFM announces the first annual International Foreskin Awareness Week

NCFM Press Release San Diego, California, May 7, 2013 The National Coalition For Men (NCFM) proudly announces the first annual International Foreskin Awareness Week, from May 6 to May 12, 2013. Contact: Steven Svoboda, Esq., NCFM PR Director, arc@post.harvard.edu   925-395-2065 “One of NCFM’s goals is to educate the public about the lesser known issue of discrimination against men and boys.  In light of the recent announcement of International Clitoris Awareness Week by Clitoraid (an organization that focuses on advocacy against female genital mutilation while also opposing male genital mutilation), the importance of raising awareness about male genital mutilation is more critical than ever,” said NCFM President, Harry Crouch. “That’s also why we’re scheduling International Foreskin Awareness Week for the same days as International Clitoris Awareness Week. As part of International Foreskin Awareness Week, NCFM encourages men and women...
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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finely on why do bar associations oppose alimony reform? $$!

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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finely on why do bar associations oppose alimony reform? $$!

NCFM NOTE: Notice the editorial below opposing alimony reform says, “If she finds herself divorced after 16 years, she would be expected to re-enter the workforce and become fully self-supporting within eight years. This simply ignores the harsh realities of today’s job market, and it tells parents they cannot risk staying home with their young children,” which is absurd on its face. First, stay at home moms divorced after 16 years often have used the “stay at home” time to get a college degree or other skills training; or, they achieved professional licensing or other proficiencies before they were married. In eight years a person can get an AA, BA, a Masters Degree, and graduate  law school. Or, they can go to a trade school and develop a well paying skill in six months to two years. I don’t...
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NCFM Canadian Liaison Earl Silverman, Murdered by Suicide by the Feminized State of Canada

NCFM Canadian Liaison Earl Silverman, Murdered by Suicide by the Feminized State of Canada

Social service types might still tell you that no one is to blame for a suicide, except the person who chooses to take their own life.   Everyone is responsible for their own actions, they say. Of course, the latter has changed dramatically in the last 20 years or so. Now only men are responsible, they say, not just for their own actions, but for the wrongful actions of women. Though I’ve never thought of it until now, perhaps that’s one reason (of the many reasons) the Feminist State refuses to provide emergency shelter services for men and their children. Perhaps that’s one of the reasons my friend Earl Silverman is dead. Maybe that’s why he hung himself in his garage. Maybe in a split second of regret, eyes bulging in terror, he dug at the tightening noose around his...
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NCFM Member Girlwriteswhat address to the NY Libertarian Party Convention explaining the destructive aspects of misused feminism

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NCFM Member Girlwriteswhat address to the NY Libertarian Party Convention explaining the destructive aspects of misused feminism

NCFM NOTE: Below is a speech crafted by Girlwriteswhat. Regardless of your political views, the speech is one of the best pieces of writing ever developed about the destructive aspects of misused feminism. Absolutely amazing and we are more than pleased to share it with you. My address to the NY state libertarian party convention Hi, everyone. Firstly, I want to thank Gary for inviting me to speak here, and thank all of you for being open to the different perspective I’m hoping to present to you. Some of you–maybe all of you–might be asking yourselves, what on earth is an anti-feminist gender theorist doing speaking at a libertarian party convention. What the heck does gender, or feminism, have to do with libertarian politics and philosophies? The answer to that question is at once extremely complex, and very, very...
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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen on domestic violence not due to masculinity…

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NCFM Australian Liaison Greg Andresen on domestic violence not due to masculinity…

 Domestic violence NSW Rape Crisis Centre executive officer Karen Willis repeats the discredited claim that domestic violence is about masculinity (”Mosman woman’s death puts spotlight on domestic violence”, April 26). Research shows domestic violence is most prevalent among young people and is linked to social disadvantage, drug and alcohol abuse, mental health issues, and inadequate conflict management and emotional regulation skills. ”Masculinity” simply cannot account for the one in three reported victims of domestic assault in NSW who are male, nor the one in five offenders who are female. We won’t reduce domestic violence rates by incorrectly identifying the causes. Greg Andresen senior researcher, One in Three Campaign http://www.smh.com.au/national/letters/object-was-a-better-life-for-those-oppressed-20130426-2ik46.html#ixzz2RbpwhL5i Mosman woman’s death puts spotlight on domestic violence It was the horrific end to an already terrible tale. The death of 32-year-old Mosman resident Kate Malonyay was followed a few days...
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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley, Ph.D, Support alimony reform and equal shared parenting

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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley, Ph.D, Support alimony reform and equal shared parenting

Alimony laws are archaic and need revision. This is a historic opportunity to do just that. Mr. Finley, the group Floriday Alimony Reform, and numerous other organizations and individuals have labored for years for these reforms. If the good governor of Florida signs the reforms into law it will signal other states to do the same. Click here to sign the petition. NOTE:  If you support Alimony Reform and Equal Shared parenting, please to the petition on Change.Org and sign it to urge Governor Rick Scott to sign the legislation.  There is massive and well-financed opposition from the Family Law Section of the Florida Bar demanding that he veto it:  http://ht.ly/k2F6O Support alimony reform and equal shared parenting The lead letter below was published in The South Florida Sun-Sentinel on Thursday April 25, 2013 and is followed by the...
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NCFM SUES SELECTIVE SERVICE FOR REQUIRING ONLY MEN TO REGISTER FOR THE DRAFT

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NCFM SUES SELECTIVE SERVICE FOR REQUIRING ONLY MEN TO REGISTER FOR THE DRAFT

  PRESS RELEASE Contact: Marc Angelucci, Esq., NCFM Vice President, marcangelucci@hotmail.com   626-319-3081 Or, Steven Svoboda, Esq., NCFM PR Director, arc@post.harvard.edu   925-395-2065     NATIONAL COALITION FOR MEN SUES SELECTIVE SERVICE FOR REQUIRING ONLY MEN TO REGISTER FOR THE DRAFT Lawsuit Asserts Department of Defense’s Recent Repeal of Ban on Women in Combat Removes Lone Legal Obstacle for Requiring Women to Register for Draft Los Angeles (4/4/13) – The National Coalition For Men (NCFM) is a non-profit educational organization that advocates for equal rights for men and women. NCFM has filed a lawsuit that challenges the legality of requiring only males to register for the military draft.  The lawsuit was filed against the U.S. Selective Service System in the United States District Court for the Central District of California on April 4, 2013, Case Number 2:13-cv-02391-DSF-MAN . The...
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…the most definitive research about intimate partner violence on the planet…

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…the most definitive research about intimate partner violence on the planet…

Gender and Racial/Ethnic Differences in Criminal Justice Decision Making in Intimate Partner Violence Cases The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project Manuscripts and Online Data Base Overview of Findings by the Authors Springer Publications   Introduction: Over the years, research on partner abuse has become unnecessarily fragmented and politicized. The purpose of The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project (PASK) is to bring together in a rigorously evidence –based, transparent and methodical manner existing knowledge about partner abuse with reliable, up-to-date research that can easily be accessed both by researchers and the general public. In March, 2010, the Senior Editor of Partner Abuse1, recruited family violence scholars from the United States, Canada, and the U.K., to conduct an extensive and thorough review of the empirical literature, in 17 broad topic areas. Researchers were asked to conduct a formal search...
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NCFM College Ambassador Chris Thompson, Positive Family Traditions, TNT and NCFM adopts a highway

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NCFM College Ambassador Chris Thompson, Positive Family Traditions, TNT and NCFM adopts a highway

Positive Family Traditions, TNT and NCFM adopts a highway by: Christopher J Thompson I have been a member of the Bozeman Beautification Advisory Board for nearly a decade, helping plan the annual Bozeman Clean Up Day; unfortunately these meetings recently overlapped with my weekly “visitation” with my son and, rather than lose the little time I have with him, was forced to resign. Fortunately I noticed a sign that helped guide the way for an exciting contribution to my community, this one allowing me to bond with my five-year-old son TNT in the process. The Montana Department of Transportation’s “Adopt A Highway” program allows entities such as businesses, community groups, and families to adopt a two-mile stretch of highway, removing debris from their section of road in exchange for having their name posted on either side of their adopted...
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Jamie Cox, Domestic Violence Betrayed

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Jamie Cox, Domestic Violence Betrayed

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE BETRAYED By Jamie Cox, M.Ed. The accusation that blows the whistle on domestic violence is a life changer.  When valid, it can restore and rebuild a life.  When it’s a lie, it will rape and ravage.  Jails for the criminals and jails for the accused. While false accusations may not escalate to orange jumpsuits and prison bars, it ALWAYS devastates.  The loss of credibility, family, friends and career is a life changer. When you hear about domestic violence what comes to mind is physical brutality.  What’s lost in translation is the violence of the lie.  Sticks and stones break bones and words that lie break everything else. The number of men who have been ravaged by false accusations are too many to count and there doesn’t seem to be any end in sight.  Sure, there are laws...
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NCFM Advisor Richard Davis, Evidence Based Practices

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NCFM Advisor Richard Davis, Evidence Based Practices

NCFM NOTE: Mr. Davis is a leading domestic violence researcher, author, retired police officer, and college instructor. This article is well worth the read if you are interested in evidence-based practices for the Domestic Violence Industry. If the introduction below interests you the complete paper is online at http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474981868751 Evidence-Based Practices By Richard Davis Evidence-based practices are designed to introduce or maintain objectivity in our decision making processes (Macionis, 2011). Far too many domestic violence/aggression interventions, policies and programs that are presented to the criminal justice system are biased by ideological subjectivity rather than empirical objectivity (Dasgupta, 2003; Kruttschnitt, McLaughlin & Petrie, 2004; Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000). Too many 21st century public policy makers and domestic violence/aggression interveners remain focused on 20th century hypotheses and theories rather than 21st century evidence-based data (Black, et al., 2011; Fagan, 1996; Kruttschnitt, McLaughlin & Petrie,...
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Judith Grossman, mother, feminist, attorney slams, Title IX, VAWA, and the DOE

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Judith Grossman, mother, feminist, attorney slams, Title IX, VAWA, and the DOE

  NCFM NOTE: And herein lies the problem, mothers who not only failed to protect their sons, but self-serving ideologically driven mothers who worked overtime to put them at risk… Judith Grossman: A Mother, a Feminist, Aghast Unsubstantiated accusations against my son by a former girlfriend landed him before a nightmarish college tribunal. By JUDITH E. GROSSMAN I am a feminist. I have marched at the barricades, subscribed to Ms. magazine, and knocked on many a door in support of progressive candidates committed to women’s rights. Until a month ago, I would have expressed unqualified support for Title IX and for the Violence Against Women Act. But that was before my son, a senior at a small liberal-arts college in New England, was charged—by an ex-girlfriend—with alleged acts of “nonconsensual sex” that supposedly occurred during the course of their...
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NCFM sends letter to Georgetown University about possible gender discrimination against men at Georgetown University

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NCFM sends letter to Georgetown University about possible gender discrimination against men at Georgetown University

This article has been changed. The name of the woman alleged to have committed the offenses noted in the original letter was deleted. According to the original source, there is no conclusive evidence to support naming her, even though there is very strong circumstantial evidence. Efforts are underway to confirm that the woman earlier named is indeed the women in question. Obviously, there is no way to call back the letters sent. We still hope to hear back from Georgetown. http://www.avoiceformen.com/georgetown-university-and-men/georgetown-university-in-a-cover-up/   Gender discrimination and hate speech is apparently what we are teaching in our schools. Gender discrimination against men anyway. Horrific. Share and Enjoy:
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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley, Ph.D, Letter: Columnist’s conclusion on alimony bill wrong, published in Florida Today

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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley, Ph.D, Letter: Columnist’s conclusion on alimony bill wrong, published in Florida Today

Letter: Columnist’s conclusion on alimony bill wrong The letter below was published in Florida Today on Wednesday, 4/17/13 and is followed by the column to which it responded. Gordon E. Finley, Ph.D. Letter: Columnist’s conclusion on alimony bill wrong http://www.floridatoday.com/article/20130417/OPINION/130416004/Letter-Columnist-s-conclusion-alimony-bill-wrong While I applaud columnist Paul Flemming for a sound review of the issues in Saturday’s “Alimony bill will be great — for lawyers,” his bottom-line conclusion is dead wrong. The proposed state alimony reform bill will reduce litigation, not increase litigation. A bit of history. For years, the divorce vultures (a.k.a., the Family Law Section of the Florida Bar) have conned the Florida Legislature into writing divorce legislation that maximizes litigation and thus maximizes their income. In part, they have accomplished this by maximizing judicial discretion, which in practice means endless conflict and, of course, endless paid litigation. No...
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NCFM PR Director, Steven Svoboda, Esq., recommends reading How to Talk to Men: The Geisha & the Gorilla

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NCFM PR Director, Steven Svoboda, Esq., recommends reading How to Talk to Men: The Geisha & the Gorilla

How to Talk to Men: The Geisha & the Gorilla. By Mia Sage. Honolulu: Miamar Productions, 2012.  295 pages.  www.miasage.com and www.amazon.com. No price listed on book but available on amazon for $30. Review by J. Steven Svoboda. Mia Sage, a young coach and trainer from Berlin who is currently living in Spain, has produced one of the finest volumes I have had the privilege of reviewing ever since I started writing book reviews nearly two full decades ago.  “How to Talk to Men: The Geisha & the Gorilla” is so outstanding that its scope greatly exceeds its title, which in any event only describes a small portion of its topic of how women can maximize the effectiveness of their lives and their relationships.  Sage’s achievement inspires the reader and points us the way to improving ourselves and to...
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Baby Girl versus Adoptive Parents, Adoption Agency, and the New York Times… Baby Girl wins

Baby Girl versus Adoptive Parents, Adoption Agency, and the New York Times… Baby Girl wins

The April 15, 2013 New York Times op-ed A Wrenching Adoption Case reveals more about the gender leanings of the newspaper than it does the facts of the case, which the editors either ignored; or, buried. In brief, this case, Adoptive Parents v. Baby Girl, has to do with purported violations of the Indian Child Welfare Act which, as the NY Times rightly notes,”… was passed in 1978 to prevent state and local welfare offices from separating Indian children from their parents, many without good reason, and placing them in non-Indian homes.” Baby Girl was born to an American Indian father and non American Indian mother. The biological parents were not married to each other and the father, supposedly and voluntarily, gave up his parental rights. The mother allowed Baby Girl to be adopted. The father later asserted his...
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A male survivor’s perspective on “rape culture”

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A male survivor’s perspective on “rape culture”

NCFM NOTE: Many MRA’s are MRAs because they were childhood victims of sexual assault. Many were sexually assaulted by their mothers, female babysitters, teachers… Such abuse is not uncommon, it’s just been taboo to talk about it. What follows is a worthwhile read from poetry, dreams, and the body a blog by Rick Belden, author of Iron Man Family Outing… Please read, go to the post, and comment.  This issue and post deserve attention. Please comment here too for the benefit of our readers. A male survivor’s perspective on “rape culture” Posted on December 20, 2012 An article titled “Rape Culture: What It Is and How It Works” posted on the Good Men Project website earlier this week prompted me to leave the following comment: The “rape culture” terminology, as I’ve typically seen it applied, brands all men and...
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NCFM PR Director, Steven Svoboda, Esq., recommends reading Endowed: Regulating the Male Sexed Body.

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NCFM PR Director, Steven Svoboda, Esq., recommends reading Endowed: Regulating the Male Sexed Body.

Endowed: Regulating the Male Sexed Body. By Michael Thomson. New York: Taylor & Francis Group, 2008. 194 pp. www.taylorandfrancis.com. No price stated but website gives price as 18.99 British pounds. Keele University Law Professor Michael Thomson has published his first book, and it’s a flawed yet truly thought-provoking examination of various aspects of the male body’s treatment in law and culture. (Full disclosure: I met Professor Thomson at a conference in 2006 and spent some brief yet treasured time with him.) Thomson addresses a variety of seemingly disparate topics, including the law and ethics of male circumcision, legal developments relating to protecting women of reproductive age (or all women) from workplace hazards, the path of Viagra and its competitors through our society including advertising and promoting of it, sperm donor identification policies, and the interrelationship of sports, sexual violence,...
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“Restraining Order Terrorism” — the Pauley Perrette/Francis “Coyote” Shivers case…the beginning of the end

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“Restraining Order Terrorism” — the Pauley Perrette/Francis “Coyote” Shivers case…the beginning of the end

A Voice For Men is exposing the corruption in the Pauley Perrette — Francis “Coyote” Shivers high profile restraining order case. NCFM became interested and we asked Private Investigator Michael Conzachi (Michael Conzachi resume) to attend a recent court hearing at the Airport Branch of the Los Angeles Superior Court last Friday to see what his impressions were. In his investigative report below, Mr. Conzachi writes that Mr. Francis “Coyote” Shivers, alleged criminal, probation violator, and otherwise horrible human being is none of those. He is in fact a decent guy being railroaded by an uncaring criminal justice system apparently more interested in catering to Hollywood elite than justice. Ms. Pauley Perrette, one of the stars of the CBS television show NCIS, accused Coyote, her ex-husband, of violating a restraining order when he showed up at a restaurant where...
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NCFM Transitions, April 2013 Edition, the longest running, oldest, and only Men’s Rights Journal on the planet

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NCFM Transitions, April 2013 Edition, the longest running, oldest, and only Men’s Rights Journal on the planet

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NCFM MSU Chapter President Nevada Thompson, “Protecting My Sons”

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NCFM MSU Chapter President Nevada Thompson, “Protecting My Sons”

Protecting My Sons by: Nevada Thompson In response to the Montana Kaimin article about establishing National Coalition for Men groups at campus universities across the nation, I would like to thank Bjorn Bergeson for the neutral and informative perspective. Sadly, I was disheartened to read Ms. Phenocia Bauerle, Montana State Diversity Coordinator’s comment about our message being “problematic” and Brent Hildebrand, UM Men of Strength’s comment that the information we disperse is “misleading”. I am the President of the National Coalition for Men – MSU (NCFM), I am a woman, I have four boys, three of which are teenagers; therefore, I appreciate rights, privileges and protections that I receive due solely to the nature of my gender, however, I would like to take a moment to clear the air about the NCFM “message”. Being a mother of four boys,...
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Stop Exploiting Africans — Circumcision Does Not Stop AIDS

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Stop Exploiting Africans — Circumcision Does Not Stop AIDS

Stop Exploiting Africans — Circumcision Does Not Stop AIDS by JerryTheOther The ushers at the Brooklyn Academy of Music were as stunned as Bill and Chelsea Clinton – patrons usually don’t stand mid-performance and shout slogans at the stage – so no one should blame them for not restoring order. That night, March 4th, some cool intactivists and I pulled off an amazing protest: we interrupted a Clinton Foundation Millennium Network talk at the Brooklyn Academy of Music, standing and chanting “Stop Exploiting Africans” and “Circumcision Does Not Stop AIDS” to protest the misguided efforts to circumcise millions of African men to stop AIDS, stunning the audience, Bill, Chelsea, and actor Ed Norton. Already there’s been good press on the internet about our “action” and a lot of intelligent comments. See intaction.org or intactamerica.org or their Facebook pages to...
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NCFM MSU in the news for wanting to cure rape hysteria…

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NCFM MSU in the news for wanting to cure rape hysteria…

Men’s group wants to cure Montana’s ‘rape hysteria’ The National Coalition for Men has its sights set on starting a chapter at the University of Montana next fall. NCFM Campus coordinator and spokesman Christopher Thompson said that he is working on meeting with fraternities in the next few weeks to get them on board with the NCFM platform. NCFM started out in 1977 as a male response to the feminist movement. Thompson started a chapter at Montana State University last year, and the group now has 15 members. Nationwide, the group has attracted controversy and criticism. It’s been called sexist and misogynistic, but Thompson said the group is misunderstood. “I would say in a sense, it’s about true gender equality,” Thompson said. “Right now things aren’t equal in a lot of ways. We’ve got a of lot laws that...
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Make plans for November 19, International Mens Day!

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Make plans for November 19, International Mens Day!

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE CONTACT: Reveren Anthony L. Stevenson Tri-State (USA) Regional Coordinator – 2013 International Men’s Day Office: (215) 551-2098   Cell: (267) 237-5197 E-mail: agcnshoes@live.com FATHERHOOD PRACTITIONER REVEREND ANTHONY L. STEVENSON SELECTED FOR 2013 INTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY LEADERSHIP ROLE               PHILADELPHIA, PA (USA) – 17 MARCH 2013 – The International Men’s Day Coordination Committee has announced that Fatherhood Practitioner Reverend Anthony L. Stevenson accepted an invitation to become the Tri-State (USA) Regional Coordinator for 2013 International Men’s Day (https://sites.google.com/a/imd-global.org/international–mens–day) in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and Delaware.  A recipient of the Pennsylvania Family Coalition’s 2011 Excellence In Presenting Award along with his wife Minister Renee Stevenson, Reverend Stevenson is a Peace Ambassador for the World Association of Non-Governmental Organizations (“WANGO”); a Double Certified Master Fatherhood Trainer and Facilitator with the National Fatherhood Initiatives (“NFI”); a National Partnership for Community Leadership (“NPCL”)...
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Changing the Domenstic Violence Scene — MOVVE

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Changing the Domenstic Violence Scene — MOVVE

CHANGING THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SCENE Denial was always the reality protecter that insulated the family from the truth.  Her boys never said anything and her husband’s voice never once uttered what his eyes revealed.  After all, who could acknowledge a mother abusing her sons.  It was those soccer parents witnessing what Pat was doing that brought everything into focus. Mike got me involved in this domestic violence picture when he asked for help.  He shared an unsettling story of how others intervened and stopped his wife from hitting their youngest boy.  Police got involved, charges were filed, there was a court hearing and then everything got settled.  A suspended sentence, fines, domestic violence classes, separation, individual counseling, anger management classes, group counseling, family counseling and then everyone all back together like everything is normal.  The criminal justice system seems...
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NCFM Vice President Marc Angelucci invited guest speaker about domestic violence at El Camino College

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NCFM Vice President Marc Angelucci invited guest speaker about domestic violence at El Camino College

On 3/25/13, NCFM’s Vice President, Marc Angelucci, was an invited guest speaker before a Sociology class of about 30-40 students at El Camino Community College near Redondo Beach, California.  The Professor had invited Angelucci to speak about male victims of domestic violence and particularly NCFM’s legal victory in Woods v. Horton (2008) 167 Cal.App.4th 648, which held it is unconstitutional to exclude male victims the statutory funding provisions or from state-funded services.  Before the lecture the Professor displayed a PowerPoint image of NCFM’s street rally against Verizon’s anti-father domestic violence ad.  The presentation lasted about 40 minutes.  Angelucci began by talking about NCFM and how he got involved as a laws student back in 1998.  Then he discussed the events that led up to the Woods case, including the discrimination against male victims and their children in state-funded DV programs, how the late Patricia Overberg, director of Valley Oasis shelter in Lancaster, was mistreated by other shelters for helping battered men, the...
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NCFM Campus Coordinator Chris Thompson in the news re NCFM college chapters

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NCFM Campus Coordinator Chris Thompson in the news re NCFM college chapters

NCFM note: Nice work Mr. Thompson! Readers stay tuned. As some rightly say, “You ain’t seen nothing yet…” Men Discrimination double-take by Jamie Rogers In a 2006 Super Bowl commercial for FedEx, a grizzly bear kicks Burt Reynolds in the crotch. For many, groin shots are lumped into the same hard-not-to-laugh category as farts and people walking into screen doors. But for members of the National Coalition For Men, the commercial is another example of gender discrimination. And, according to NCFM Campus Coordinator Christopher Thompson, there are few places the burden of the Y-chromosome is more realized than at the University of Montana. According to its website, NCFM has worked since 1977 to end the oppression of men and to resolve “issues which are barriers to progress and freedom.” In an online video, the organization outlines these issues, which...
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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley, Ph.D. blasts VAWA for causing the deaths of men

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NCFM Advisor Gordon Finley, Ph.D. blasts VAWA for causing the deaths of men

Men die with VAWA The letter immediately below was published in The Hill on Wednesday March 13, 2013 and is followed by the article to which it responded. NCFM Advisor, Gordon E. Finley, Ph.D. Men die with VAWA http://thehill.com/opinion/letters/287807-military-cuts-hurt-veterans-leave-americans-exposed From Gordon E. Finley In perhaps the supreme triumph of ideology and the feminist vote bullying over science ever, the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) has been passed by both gutless houses of Congress and signed by a spineless president (“Obama signs VAWA, hails law as ‘victory’ for violence victims,” March 7). Tragically, boys, men and fathers increasingly will die at the hands of their violent mothers and wives as our worthless elected officials rush to issue press releases and pat themselves on the back claiming victory for all eternity to now having ended “the war on women.” The consequences,...
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Feminist Myths — Catapultam Habeo – We’ve all seen infographics (should that be…

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Feminist Myths — Catapultam Habeo – We’ve all seen infographics (should that be…

NCFM NOTE:  the feminist myths busting  article below comes from Tumblr. Thanks to NCFM member Greg Andresen for sending it to NCFM . Tumblr is a “site Dedicated to debunking SJ myths and encouraging open, logical, factual and relevant discussion. This blog deals regularly with triggering material such as rape, domestic violence, homo/transphobia, and other nasty things. Tread carefully.” This is a superb article. Catapultam Habeo – We’ve all seen infographics (should that be… By Unnamed Tumblr, We’ve all seen infographics (should that be “infauxgraphics”?) like the one above that include various “facts” about the plight of women and girls presented as global issues.  The problem with these is two-fold: 1) they are rarely, if ever, global problems, and 2) many of the “facts” are misrepresented or outright fabricated. Let’s call it what it is.  These aren’t “facts”, they’re...
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Nordic Countries defund Gender Ideology… but it survives.

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Nordic Countries defund Gender Ideology… but it survives.

  NCFM NOTE: The article below was published by Turtle Bay and Beyond International Law, Institutions and Policies, September, 5, 2012. When we searched on “Nordic Council of Ministers and NIKK” (Nordic Gender Institute) there were no references to any mention of this historic event in mainstream American media, not  a peep. As interesting perhaps is what happened to the NIKK after being defunded. They went from “All to sudden death” to “NIKK is dead — Long Live NIKK” to “NIKK has closed” to “NIKK is back online” and has resurrected with a new name overseen by another agency. Like a malignant tumor cutting one out does not guarantee it won’t raise it’s evil intent elsewhere. NIKK is now called the Nordic Information for Gender Knowledge and is housed in the Swedish Secretariat for Gender Research. Regardless, thank you Harald Eia...
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Anti-male House of Representatives approves anti-male Senate version of the Violence Against Women Act” (VAWA)

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Anti-male House of Representatives approves anti-male Senate version of the Violence Against Women Act” (VAWA)

NOTE: For those of you who insist that VAWA is gender neutral and inclusive how is it that it’s the Violence Against Women Act?  Think about it… This well written article by Michael Conzachi was being considered for publication by the Los Angeles Times, which then declined to run it. It’s interesting that the LA Times even considered publishing the article since historically the news paper has not been very supportive of injustices committed against men as a group. Maybe the decision not to publish the article is nothing more than an affirmation that things are status quo at the LA Times. If they endorse Sheila Kuehl for Mayor then we will know for sure. ____________________________________________ By Michael Conzachi On Thursday, Congress voted to reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act.  While any type of intimate partner violence is deplored,...
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NCFM Campus Ambassador Chris Thompson reports on university kangaroo justice and how to create criminals out of innocent men

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NCFM Campus Ambassador Chris Thompson reports on university kangaroo justice and how to create criminals out of innocent men

NCFM NOTE: Notice here how DOE directives gutting due process procedures coincide with the DOJ’s  lowered standards of evidence and expansive new definition of sexual assault/rape. This trick to further disenfranchise males is epic. First, expand the definition of something that is believed to be a horrific offense to women which necessarily creates more criminals from those previously innocent of whatever crime is created through the expanded definition. Next, pound into the public that the horrific offense against women is massive. Then quietly through administrative fiat make it easier to convict those who were previously innocent of any related crime before the expanded definition. Do you get it? Chris Thompson does. Here’s how it works in action: ______________________________________ The University of Montana has become an epicenter of rape hysteria and now, men’s activism The Department of Education issued its...
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NCFM Member Joe Manthey, “Blaming Men Doesn’t Solve Domestic Violence”

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NCFM Member Joe Manthey, “Blaming Men Doesn’t Solve Domestic Violence”

Lately our community has been bombarded with a United Nations (UN) claim that “One In Three Women On The Planet Will Be Raped Or Beaten In Her Lifetime.” The UN fails to cite any sources for this claim and the latest UN report Prevention of violence against women and girls. Report of the Secretary-GeneralE/CN.6/2013/4 on violence against women provided by a UN media officer when asked for such does not make the “one in three” claim. By extrapolation of this “lifetime” figure, Eve Ensler, founder of the Vagina Monologues, assumes that, worldwide, one billion women have been raped or beaten. Consequently, this year’s V-Day theme is “One Billion Rising.” Ensler used war-stricken Congo as an example in an attempt to persuade the public of her one billion estimate, reasoning that because one in three women in the Congo are...
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Are Things Really Equal?

Absolutely a must watch video, especially if you still think men are advantaged over women

Useful Family Law Resource based on California Law.

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NCFM Adviser Philip W. Cook with “Girl Writes What” NCFM Member Karen Straughan

Girlwriteswhat on ideological feminism and its impact on our society and culture

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Conference on Male Studies: Looking Forward to Solutions Part 1 from Joseph Notovitz on Vimeo

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More on the war against males in education

Great site for the facts and relevant ariticles

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Interview with Erin Pizzey, the women who started the domestic violence shelter movement

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Other MUST WATCH Videos

 

Dr. Helen

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Great Resources for Abused Men

 
  • Dometic Abuse Hotline for Men and Women, based in Maine, offers 24-hour hotline: 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754) and may be offering shelter services.
  • Valley Oasis in Lancater, CA has offers shelter and other services for men and their children. 24-hour Hotline: (661) 945-6736.
  • Family of Men Support Society, Calgary, Canada, shelter and support services.
  • Male Survivor, Overcoming Sexual Victimization of Boys and Men
  • probono.net, provides resources for pro bono and legal services attorneys and others working to assist low income or disadvantaged clients.
  • LawHelp.org, helps low and moderate income people find free legal aid programs in their communities, answers to questions about their legal rights, and find forms to help with their legal problems.
  • Shared Parenting Works has parenting plans and other resources.
  • Walk a Mile in HIS Shoes resources for abused men in Canada.
  • One in Three Campaign resoures for abused men in Australia.
  • Stop Abuse for Everyone, one of the most comprehensive and oldest sites dedicated to victims of domestic violence. The site was recently upgraded with the assistance of NCFM. The site includes an interactive map of north America for helping to find shelter services that might or do help abused men.

More great resources for men and those who care about men. Ask your elected officials if they do.

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