NCFM strenuously objects to the Verizon Foundation and the National Domestic Violence Hotline teaming up for some man-hating

December 1, 2011

A 6 year old boy from Larnaca was abused by his parents. The teachers at his primary school noticed his injuries and alerted the police and Social Welfare Services. After examination the boy was found to have multiple injuries inflicted by beating and burns from a red-hot kitchen knife blade. The boy said that his mother was punishing him in this way for no apparent reasons. The parents have been charged by the police and will be brought to justice while the boy is currently with social services...

“I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honorable and viable political act, that the oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that is oppressing them.” — Robin Morgan – former president of the National Ourganization for Women (NOW) and editor of MS magazine

Last week we became aware of the Verizon Foundation’s and National Domestic Violence Hotline’s disgusting video Monsters.

NCFM mailed and/or emailed 28 leaders of both organizations an open letter strenuously objecting to their outrageous man and boy little hating video.

Before reading the letter we sent please watch or re watch the video.

Now that you have seen it ask yourself if you can imagine yourself in the room full of people who conjured up this video. How many people do you see? How many meetings were there? Which million dollar conference rooms were used in Verizon and NDVH buildings? How many men and how many women were in the conferences? How many taxpayer federal dollars were used or w ill be used to distribute this vile video through the National Domestic Violence Hotline?

Try to imagine all that and the conversations that led to the production of this horrific man and little boy bashing video. I cannot imagine myself being surrounded by however many people were in those meetings, all blinded by some ill conceived and irrational ideology that drives them gender profiling, hate speech, and the absolutely stupid belief that only little boys grow up to become abusers.

These hate mongers  have no business in any capacity in which they can influence the beliefs of others. If ignorant they can be educated, if hate filled ideologues with hidden agendas there is little or no reason to believe reality and truth will have any bearing on their self-serving idiocy.

And, wouldn’t you like to know that one someone, the first person in this group of these male-hating, sociopath, pariahs who conceived Monsters?

If challenged that person and her defenders will deny, justify, rationalize, and blame it on a kid, the little girl, if she really exists, whose ugly vision this video purportedly shares. I sure would, I want to know. Then could put on a full court press to get whoever it was fired, if not somehow imprisoned.

You won’t see this video on network television, it’s a weird length ill suited to program scheduling. It will live on the Internet and be proudly shown around the country at domestic violence council meetings; used for training public safety officers, forced on  the military for awareness training, and paraded at fundraising events put on by domestic violence shelters, family justice centers, and even struggling university women studies programs. Oh, and yes, it will be introduced into our schools perhaps even as early as first grade.

This video has the potential for spreading harm and hate for decades. It has to be stopped, withdrawn, and destroyed.

Please help. Our letter includes the mailing address, email addresses, and even some phone numbers to those that have the power to stop this pure propaganda mind-warping travesty of a video. Write letters, send emails, and make phone calls to your legislators too; also, your local Verizon company executives and newspapers.

Please feel free to reprint our letter and mail or email it, turn it into handouts, flyers and so forth. Also, please distribute a link to this page to as many people as you can.

Become part of the solution and help us help others protect our children and future generations by ensuring this video is pulled from the Internet, is not distributed, and destroyed.

How is it we allow such hate-mongers to gain such power? I just don’t get it.

Harry Crouch

President, NCFM

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27 Responses to NCFM strenuously objects to the Verizon Foundation and the National Domestic Violence Hotline teaming up for some man-hating

  1. VAWAvictim on February 1, 2012 at 9:23 AM

    45 years of "Feminist" Domestic Violence Industry Evil Indoctrination that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, Encouraging an Epidemic of False Accusations of Sexual Harassment, Domestic Violence and Rape, that:
    – Women are Good, All Men are Violent and Rapists!
    – Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators!
    – Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed!


    The Violence Against Women Act, VAWA grants $1 Billion to the Misandric Domestic Violence Industry, money that is used for propaganda… it is used to brain-wash the public with the Sick, Venomous Feminist Doctrines which are:
    – spreading male-hate (Misandry),
    – creating and encouraging ongoing conflict between the sexes,
    – maligning males and boys in every possible way,
    – Encourage an Epidemic of False Accusations by Women agains Men

    …and Inspire Misandric Legislations and School/Court/Police Practices

  2. Alberto Canal on December 9, 2011 at 10:48 AM

    As I wrote to Mr. Crouch and Mr. Angelucci yesterday (12/8)

    “Monsters” has been removed from YouTube. The intent of the Verizon Foundation was to shine the light on the devastating issue of domestic violence and the impact it has on the most vulnerable –our children. We do not want to distract from that message or the issue of domestic violence, so we have decided to remove the video. As an organization, we believe in listening to the voices of the many and the few. It’s important to note that the majority of the responses we have received have been overwhelmingly positive, and we have received hundreds of requests for the video.

    Alberto Canal, Verizon

  3. Harry on December 8, 2011 at 7:36 AM

    It's interesting that women like Kim clearly show the self righteous superiority so common in Supremist Feminists who have never done anything other than go to meetings and congratulate each other on going to more meetings than the next Supremist Feminist, regardless of gender. Somehow their lack of practical skills impedes their cognitive functioning by tricking them into believing their time in this life is somehow useful to someone other than themselves. They are not even clever, except to the extend that they think they have outsmarted the goodness of Man. In fact, all they have done is show the self absorbed side of women. Regardless, welcome to our group Kim, please bring your friends so the world can see who they are too.

  4. Kim Phillips on December 7, 2011 at 8:29 PM

    Foaming at the mouth and going into attack mode because there is no firm place to stand is something I often see from right-wing nutjobs and macho crapheads. Predictable as sunrise. We're done now.

    • Ann on June 20, 2012 at 6:02 AM

      Kim, You are a disgrace!

  5. Marc on December 7, 2011 at 7:40 PM

    I didn't "foam at the mouth," you dumb dumb. You chose to avoid a substantive discussion, so I stooped to your level. As the proverb goes, "Answer a fool according to his folly, or he wil be wise in his own eyes." You acted like a fool, and I answered accordingly. No "foaming" at all, Kimmy.

  6. Marc on December 7, 2011 at 5:38 PM

    Yes Kim and I love whining and watching dummies like you react! :-)))))

  7. Kim Phillips on December 7, 2011 at 5:00 PM

    I don't know a single woman who is such a whiner. (This is fun.)

  8. Kim Phillips on December 7, 2011 at 4:53 PM

    Poor, poor baby.

    • Marc on December 7, 2011 at 4:53 PM

      Poor, poor idiot Kim. LOL.

    • Marc on December 7, 2011 at 4:55 PM

      Funny you would say "poor poor baby" when you claim men are pounding women. I could easily say the same of women being pounded, "poor poor babies." But I'm not a dumbass like you.

    • thedomesticviolenceindustry on December 7, 2011 at 9:33 PM


      How does the Domestic Violence Industry's Propaganda of Lies Destroys Families and Society?
      The Feminist Domestic Violence Industry's Propaganda of Lies which purpose is to Indoctrinate the public that:
      – Women are Good, Men are Bad!
      – Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators!
      – Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed!

  9. Marc on December 7, 2011 at 3:56 PM

    Well Kim, that's exactly the attitude that has hindered equal rights. Ignorant idiots like you who don't know what they're talking about. I guess to you it's ok that children are denied domestic violence services just because the victim is their father, a male. Or that men are given higher sentences for crimes than women are. Or that men make the vast majority of job deaths, combat deaths, homeless adults, suicide deaths, dropouts, etc. Or that children are denied sufficient time with their dads. Or that in some countries like Japan and Germany unmarried dads have no custody rights unless mom consents, which directly affects the kids. Or that in India, only men can be prosecuted for adultery. Or that the United Nations has declared that Israel discriminates against divorced fathers.

    • Kim Phillips on December 7, 2011 at 4:33 PM

      When men stop pounding on women, I'll worry about any of the above. Men have controlled the world since the dawn of time because they are able to beat women into submission and now that society (present company excluded) has decided to change that, the neanderthals don't like it. Boo-hoo.

      • Marc on December 7, 2011 at 4:45 PM

        Women pound on men as much as the reverse. Do your research, Kim.
        A 32-nation study by the University of New Hampshire found women are as violent and controlling as men in dating relationships worldwide.

        No, men haven't controlled the world. The elite have, and that's both men and women. The vast majority of men have worked as dogs in dangerous jobs, working in mines, fixing your streets, collecting your gargabe, cleaning your sewers, and fighting wars the elite created and that women have supported at the same rate men have. So you can boo hoo all you want, but it's you who pays the consequences in taxes, crime, homelessness, etc., and your brothers, sons, etc. who pay the price directly. That's fine if you're too stupid to care, but we do. Discrimination by sex is wrong no matter what direction it's in. And thankfully, we're winning, despite igno-reactionaries like you.

  10. Kim Phillips on December 7, 2011 at 10:28 AM

    There needs to be a organization to protect men? Poor, poor babies.

    • thedomesticviolenceindustry on December 11, 2011 at 9:44 AM

      There is an epidemic of False Accusations of Domestic Violence, Abuse and Rape in this country.

  11. thedomesticviolenceindustry on December 6, 2011 at 8:02 PM

    The "Feminist" Ideology that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, that:
    – Women are Good, Men are Bad!
    – Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators!
    – Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed!
    … – Why?

    This Transformation is Clearly an Erosion and Destruction of the Family, the Mental Health of Children, Society and the Good Life as we know it, and can be described as being Evil! What enabled this Destructive Transformation?

    The question to be answered here is: How do we defeat 45 years of "Feminist" Domestic Violence Industry Evil Indoctrination that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, that:
    – Women are Good, Men are Bad!
    – Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators!
    – Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed! ?

    G00gle: Martha Laura Granados Immigration

  12. thedomesticviolenceindustry on December 6, 2011 at 8:01 PM

    Feminism = Anti-Marriage = Anti-Family = Slutty Women = Divorce = Abortions = "Men are Rapists" = Misandry = Domestic Violence Industry Propaganda of Lies = False Accusations = Same-Sex Marriages = Zero Moral Values = Destroyed Fathers/Men = Destroyed Families = Destroyed Civilized Society

    1. Give Women Voting Rights
    2. Give Women Equal Rights
    3. Give Women Extra Rights
    4. Give Women Extra Protection… from Men
    5. Hear only Women and Ignore Men
    6. Believe Women only and Treat men as Perpetrators
    7. Let Women Falsely Accuse Men without Consequences
    8. Encourage Women to be Helpless Victims and to think of All Men as Rapists
    9. Encourage False Accusations by Women (VAWA) and Punish Innocent Men
    10. …Watch Women Destroy Men, the Family and Society !!!

    There is an epidemic of False Accusations of Domestic Violence, Abuse and Rape in this country.

    There are Laws, Legislations, Court and Police practices that encourage False Accusations, Women gain from False Accusations – Why?

    G00gle: Martha Laura Granados Immigration

    • LucidGal on December 7, 2011 at 10:27 AM

      We never should have given women the right to vote because it only leads to man-hating? You're an ignorant jackass.

      • thedomesticviolenceindustry on December 7, 2011 at 9:23 PM

        Well… Here in the US we (the Osama Administration … oops … typo … the Obama Administration) have already successfully implemented steps 1 thru 9.

        We are dilligently working on step 10, soon to be successfully implemented in the Entire Western World and all other English Speaking Countries.

        We guarrantee Total Success and a Complete/Utter Destruction of Men, the Family and Society !!!

  13. Marc on December 5, 2011 at 5:20 PM

    I'm organizing a protest outside Verizon in Santa Monica. Other than boycotting and protesting, I want nothing to do with Verizon ever again.

    • NCFM on December 6, 2011 at 10:26 AM

      I agree. I’ve been seriously considering getting a new cell phone provider. It won’t be Verizon even if they offered to give me free service for the rest of my life. No way anyone should do business with a company that apparently feels half their customers are monsters.

  14. Ian on December 5, 2011 at 4:44 AM

    It is truly disheartening to see sexism this blatant sponsored so openly by such large organizations. But I don't think the best response involves pitchforks and torches.

    They and the public should be reminded that women are just as likely as men to commit domestic abuse, and that it is no less harmful when the abuser is a woman. They need to be reminded out that boys as well as girls become much more likely to be victims than abusers when exposed to such an environment. And it absolutely needs to be pointed out that blatant sexism as this has no place in our society, whether it is against women or men.

    But these important messages won't be heard if they're delivered with accusations. Yes, there's some hate in this video, but hateful people won't be persuaded, so just forget them. However, you might be able to educate the ignorant, so long as you refrain from getting angry with them and making them defensive.

  15. Dad Of One on December 3, 2011 at 2:34 PM

    Actually, this will increase violence against children, as it will encourage women to file false allegations of Domestic Violence, thereby eliminating the father from having the ability to protect his children from the mother's abuse.

  16. Michael Steane on December 2, 2011 at 5:43 AM

    This video will do nothing to reduce violence against children and will quite possibly increase it because of the indirect effects of promoting hatred against men and teaching boys that they are worthless. (By implication, the problem with violence against the boy in the movie is that it is likely to make him grow up to be an abuser. Absolutely nothing about him having worth in his own right. However, abuse against the girl is likely to have the effect of making her more susceptible to further abuse.) This is a truly odious and repugnant video.

    • thedomesticviolenceindustry on December 9, 2011 at 1:11 PM

      This video definitely increases the Epidemic of False Accusations of Domestic Violence, Abuse and Rape in this country.

      The "Feminist" Ideology that is now Indoctrinated into Politics, the Government, Courts, Police and General Public, that:
      – Women are Good, Men are Bad
      – Women are helpless Victims, Men are Perpetrators
      – Women need Help and Protection, Men must be Restrained, Prosecuted and Jailed!

      VAWA is responsible for an epidemic of False Accusations of Domestic Violence, Abuse and Rape in this country – in order to gain the upper hand in a divorce, for House, Car, Money, Child Custody, Child Support, Alimony, Pure Vengeance and… Immigration.

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